It's Not Happening  

bigandtallreturn 38M
1538 posts
3/1/2006 8:43 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

It's Not Happening


She hasn't responded back to the e-mail (but she's been on this site today) and the two times I tried to call her, I got her friend/roommate/whoever the hell she was, both times saying "she's asleep."

The subtle message couldn't have been clearer, though: she wants nothing I have to offer.

So I decided to let it go and just forget it. This has happened quite a few times before, both on here and elsewhere: contact is initiated, a conversation will strike up, everything is seemingly going fine, and then suddenly and swiftly, that's that. No response to e-mails, no returning phone calls, etc. It's almost as if all of a sudden, they can sense that instead of a handsome, charming, rich man on the other end of the line, it's boring ol' me. And once that happens, I'm on the losing end every time.

But you know what? It's HER loss, not mine. My brother told me years ago to approach any and all rejections in that manner, and so I do. She doesn't want me? Fine. She doesn't know what she's missing. Granted, I'm not the greatest lover in the world, but I'll toot my horn for once and say I'm getting pretty goddamn good at the fine art of horizontal refreshments. And what she doesn't get to enjoy, my Adult Friend will (if she so desires) and so will prospective future girlfriends and the love of my life who I KNOW is out there, somewhere. So the way I see it, she just lost out.

So why do I still feel so bummed out?

"Today may be the first day of the rest of your life, unless you live on the other side of the International Date Line, then yesterday was the first day of the rest of your life."- Larry Andersen


PassionKisses4Me 45F

3/2/2006 7:04 pm

Hugs baby...she is just damn stupid for not meeting you...and your friends like me know what a great guy you are.....so don't feel to bad...come rest your head on my breasts and let me make it all go away

Becky

~Becky~


sweetSinn2690
2943 posts
3/2/2006 7:31 pm

well seems we all have to go thru trial and error and if it was meant to be it will suceed someday...hang in there and keep your chin up....good things come to those who wait i suppose...i get tired of waiting myself...lol...(((huggs)))


Oh WHATEVER BITCHES!


bigandtallreturn 38M

3/3/2006 5:03 am

Thanks, Becky. A truest friend in every sense of the word; you are that.

Sinn, you're a good friend, too. If only I could come to Missouri, we could have a little fun together...

"Today may be the first day of the rest of your life, unless you live on the other side of the International Date Line, then yesterday was the first day of the rest of your life."- Larry Andersen


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