biMIman4fun 50M
8 posts
8/20/2005 1:56 pm

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9/7/2006 4:34 am


I have been a member of AdultFriendFinder for a year and a half. I have met some pretty cool people on this site. I must say that the success of this site is far from desirable though. There have been several times that a meet was to take place and no one confirms the place, date, time, etc. It seems that most people I have encountered are satisfied with the lifestyle as long as they are protected by the computer monitor. They are more of a voyeur than an active participant.

ServeTerceRuled 39M
2 posts
9/3/2005 6:23 pm

What kind of things were you hoping for? You have to admit that there are many people that fear the meeting the worng people. But, who doesn't enjoy a little voyeurism.

cntrlmitonguelvr 55F

9/17/2005 5:45 am

I agree with your comment on the success factor. A lot of people are afraid and so they back out at the last minute. I admit that I have backed out once or twice myself, but never without prior notice. All I have to say is this: "IF you get scared, at least have the decency to tell the person ahead of time, don't leave them HIGH and DRY sitting at some Restaurant or Bar waiting and wondering. The best way to keep things safe and sane is: Always meet in a public place to start, then- when you feel comfortable and safe, then you can take it private!!!!!!! There's lots of fun to be had, why waste it on a little fear!! Go for it people!!!

rm_a_holepoker 66M
1 post
9/22/2005 3:39 pm

Been there, experienced that myself (no-shows) .. Agree w/ ntrlmitonguelvr, first meetings always take place on neutral ground.. butt just try to get somebody to meet you there! And its even worse down here in Corn Country (St.Joseph Co), I think they're all out gettin' it on with their live stock. BE A MAN (or woman), you're no better than your word. If you can't make it, SAY SO!

rm_tohard66 51M

10/8/2005 5:47 pm


miguy_19672000 51M
1 post
1/3/2006 1:08 pm

i have ran into the same thing but i have met some really nice people who have showed up but most will not show dont know why i'm a down to earth guy who just wants to have a little fun on the side its hard for me to travel but i have place for the fun just show up when u say so thanks all

rm_aelzzzzzz 67M

2/25/2006 4:41 pm

biMIman4fun ....hey...please hit me up on
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