married or otherwise  

bi1curiousgrrrl 50F
42 posts
4/25/2006 6:46 pm

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4/26/2006 11:47 am

married or otherwise


Okay so I'm pretty clear on my expectations about married people. She has to be into it... I absolutely refuse to have anything to do with someone who is married and cheating. Absolutely not okay. That is lying. That is betrayal and that is NOT okay.

I've been cheated on and lied to in relationships, betrayal sucks! I won't be party to it. It is wrong. Either you've got balls enough to tell the truth, face the consequences or you remain a coward and sneak around and lie... go find someone else... it won't be me. I don't want anything to do with it.

No, it's not okay if the relationship is over except you haven't told her. No it's not okay if you're just not happy and you haven't told her. If you have a problem in your relationship, go freakin' fix it or move on... spend some time gettin' right with yourself and then give me a call.


puntachueca 107M

4/26/2006 5:29 am

agreed. been on the receiving end of that one, too.
never quite understood the motive...for me it is more than enough to keep track of one relationship amd how people can try and do two or more at a time escapes me...maybe they were emotionally starved as children and need to horde people. maybe there's a death wish in cheating...get caught and get killed by the betrayed other.
if one is in a relationship, it seems only right and fair to give it your all, and see if it works or doesn't. and if it doesn't, be honest about that and get on with life. the foundation of all relationships...personal and beyond...is trust and honesty.


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