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bbwDDs4XXX 62F
71 posts
3/15/2006 4:05 pm

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3/18/2006 6:41 pm

Nice to meet you.

My first blog.....where to start? My main reason for being on AdultFriendFinder is to meet people that are of like mind. I love sex. I love men. I am not here to have sex with every man I meet from here. I am chosy, I have morals. I am not here to play games or to hurt anyone or to be hurt. I am a very social, likeable person to be around. This is my second time around on AdultFriendFinder. I had a different profile several years ago, met a guy on here that I married. Unfortunately he turned out to be a liar and refused to grow up and accept the responsibility of a marriage. He left after only four months of marriage. It stunned me as I did not even see it coming. After the initial shock I was happy he was gone. I paid 90% of the bills while he kept saying "I am trying." Believe me when I say he was not worth being "kept!" He has a very small auto repair shop run out of the family farm. He has been trying to get this business going for 8 years. I felt that after 8 years it was not going to fly. So I asked him to get a part time job while continuing to do what he loved so we could afford to buy a home and do things. That is when he bolted....back home to live with mommy and daddy. So I am single again for 6 months and loving every minute of it. I know I was the best thing that ever happened to him and that it is his loss.
I live in WI Dells WI, a tourist town. I love it here. The scenery is absolutely beautiful. If you have never visited the area I highly recommend it. Let me know when you are coming, let's meet for drinks.
I have been trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. I was a nurse/EMT until 1999 when I became disabled. My latest thought is that I am going to become a consultant for an adult toy and lingerie company doing home parties. I think it would be right up my alley. I love talking about sex, love toys and I think what the heck, if I can make money doing something I enjoy, all the better. I am currently researching the different companies out there.
Two weeks ago I was diagnosed with cancer of the thyroid. I have my consult tomorrow with the surgeon, I have already consulted with the endocrinologist. As far as I understand at this time they will take the left lobe of the thyroid out. While under, a pathologist will also be in the surgery suite with the surgeon and endocrinologist. The right lobe of the thyroid and the surrounding tissue will also be checked for more cancer. I am terrified. I try to keep a brave face for my son, Jericho, other family members and friends. Cancer of the thyroid is one of the most treatable of all cancers unless it has spread then it is almost certainly fatal. I have read alot about it online. It has only caused me to be more afraid. You know what they say, a little knowledge is a terrible thing.
Thanks for reading my blog, say hi and tell me about yourself. So happy to meet you. PEACE

mailmantrouser2 55M
534 posts
3/15/2006 6:07 pm

Just let me tell you that my son had a terrible surfing accident that hurt his nose something awful, but in the process of operating on that they found he had thyroid cancer. They removed the entire thyroid, plus his right neck muscle, about a year ago. He's now back to surfing as usual. One of the toughest parts is the iodine free diet he has to go on for a few weeks before they do periodical tests. Ever try to find food that does not have any iodine?

All the best to you, and do not let it ruin your (sex) life.


rm_cru1972 45M
4407 posts
3/15/2006 6:15 pm

Welcome to the blogs! Sorry to hear about nurse/EMT. I also was EMT great fun. Have fun

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