badgurl20001977 40F
75 posts
7/3/2006 7:23 pm

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We're still in a slump. I don't know what's wrong with us but we've been in a sexual slump for awhile now. Over the past month the problem was and is with me. I'm not turned on anymore with him I have no desire to be with him. I hadn't been able to get wet or orgasm. Well the past couple of days I've been able to get wet but I still have no desire for him and I can't orgasm. Lastnight he and I actually had the night to ourselves. We were having sex and I just couldn't get into the rythm or mood so we switched positions and and all of the sudden he went soft. I haven't felt that dissapointed in a long time like lastnight.

7grinder7 54M

7/7/2006 3:12 pm

yeah i guess im normal LOL .i know alot of friends of mine arent like me and their wives complain i guess i feel better now knowing im normal!!!

And yeah look me up if you decide take care have a great weekend

rm_jamesnova 40M

7/7/2006 12:01 am

Well it sounds like you have been working really hard on this and that's good but it also sounds like if something going to be done, it's you that's going to do it. Well you don't have to find someone at the moment but over time. When the time is right then you can make your move with him. Maybe blindfold him and let the other person touch him without him knowing or just letting him watch.

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/7/2006 8:28 am:
i have been thinking about it for a few months. i guess chatting online will do that to some people. i am planning on taking a little more time on him maybe he'll come around when he realizes how important this is to me.

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/7/2006 8:28 am:
i have been thinking about it for a few months. i guess chatting online will do that to some people. i am planning on taking a little more time on him maybe he'll come around when he realizes how important this is to me.

7grinder7 54M

7/6/2006 6:36 pm

hey badgurl i would like to be there for ya if he ever decides to allow another man in bed with you...

As far as swingers partys i never attended but it takes trust to let youre partner to explore their sexuality!!

As far as a woman being with you what ive heard is a woman knows what a woman likes and it can be quite a experiance.

I know one thing im like a major what did my cousin call me a "mangina" LOL ..well a horn dogg to be exact i love sex and women and i always want it i wonder if im normal LOL

Take care hope to hear back from u

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/6/2006 7:15 pm:
well from the sounds of it yeah you're normal or typical like most guys are. he'll be gone all next week so i might actually miss him enough to fuck his brains out when he gets back. i'll keep you in mind if he ever changes his.

rm_jamesnova 40M

7/5/2006 12:25 am

Well try not asking him, but surprising him with another woman. That way he doesn't have time to thinking about it but just goes with the flow and see if that works.

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/6/2006 4:52 pm:
that's the thing i don't know anybody that i would trust in assisting us with this situation. he and i are always working to it's kinda hard to make friends. i'd like to go to a swinger party once maybe to kinda get a feel for it to see if it's something that we'd be able to handle and if not the we can move on.

7grinder7 54M

7/4/2006 6:07 pm

i can understand!! when i was married before my best friend wanted my wife so i said no but when he was over and mentioned it again i said no a second time then she looked at me with those eyes and i asked her if she wanted to and she said it would be a turn on to have two men so i said o.k. he didnt satisfy her so we never did it again.

i recently had a girl friend that brought her female friend home it was cool but i wasnt turned on by her girlfriend at all but it was cool to watch them together.

i myself am overweight but im very confident in myself and the way i look. i would rather be with a big beautiful woman than a thin woman any day.

Hope all goes well for you if you ever need me to talk to or whatever im here for you

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/6/2006 4:58 pm:
thanks and sorry if it takes me awhile to reply. i'd like to try it once maybe just to get it out of my system. he doesn't think like i do sometimes but i can understand where he's coming from. i just wish he would endulge me every now and then.

7grinder7 54M

7/4/2006 10:07 am

we'll trust issues hummm i can understand that!! are u refering to bringing in another female?? and u dont think he would be up to you being with another male?

If you are allergic that could be a problem as far as lube can u get yourself wett thinking of someone else i heard it works its worth a try.

Glass dildos hummmm well never tried one of those with any of my lady friends ..heck if we were friends i would take you shopping so you can find one you like and buy it for you.

I always care of others more than myself and want them to enjoy themselves.

i would love to become youre friend at least if not to be with you to become someone that you can talk to about things

7grinder7 54M

7/4/2006 7:38 am

sometimes guys are selfish and only lookout for themselves.they dont realize if they do the little things and always look to improve and try new things to spice up the relationship and to take more time at foreplay things could get better!!

I dont feel intimidated to buy play toys for my woman they have always loved them .i enjoy watching the bullet vibrator get her off so many times.while shes doing that i slip a rotating dildo in her and then lick her ass while reaching up to play with her nipples.

And after she has came so many times then i please her.who knows maybe if men did more and werent so damn selfish and did more outside the bedroom then maybe women wouldnt feel the way they do.

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/4/2006 8:57 am:
i've been wanting to buy new movies and a few new toys. i want a glass dildo but i haven't found one i can afford yet. the bad thing is that i'm allergic to certain lotions and lubes.

toys2us 59M/59F
147 posts
7/3/2006 8:36 pm

We hear ya! Real tired of guys who can't satisfy the partner.
Best of luck to you,
Enjoy toys!

7grinder7 54M

7/3/2006 8:20 pm

if its not there for you try someone new !!! it might be nice and exciting..i mean with someone new!! you look soo hot

badgurl20001977 replies on 7/4/2006 8:59 am:
i'd like to try someone new or a threesome but my bf isn't into that kinda stuff. i'd like to try it just once. i have trust issues so right now i'm keeping it just he and i.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/3/2006 8:11 pm

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