badaffattitude 52F
44 posts
5/18/2006 10:59 am

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I thank everybody who wrote me about the guy in the last blog post. Let me quote some more:

ur cheap i had a thing for asian till i seen this so fuck off.

Me: Going beyond the syntax, Oooooh I hate that so many people just hit on me just because I'm asian. What is so special about asian? Nobody has ever come up with a reason that makes sense but so many say it. Its nice to be the beneficiary of some racial prejudices and I admit I have my own. I'd like to think mine are based on good or bad experiences, personality traits and sometimes just attitude or looks. I'll tell you my storys when asked, maybe even here, who knows. But when you think about it, we are all human beings here. Why make a thing about it when you don't know or can't express what you are talking about? Here's more:

I love asian woman and I would treat you like a queen.

First let me say that I am very attracted to asian woman

Love Asian pussy

I adore asian women.

Me: But no reason. At least I think I understand why I am also getting contacted so many other asian women, though in a way it is the same kind of racism. I guess I can admit here that I do like to play with other asian women too. Can you blame me? I'm just as bad as the guys I complain about.

rm_Fatal210 33M
9 posts
5/18/2006 11:30 am

Well To Speak Some what On The Male Stand Point
& From What I Heard From Some Homies.
"Asian Women Are Smaller So They Must Have A Smaller Tighter Pussy"
"Asian Women Look Like Teenagers At Any Age"

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/18/2006 11:31 am

I cannot think of a reason why some only hit on Asian women....maybe it's just a fetish, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

I look for the beauty of a woman, both inside and out...that's what attracts me....regardless of race or nationality.

No, I don't think you're racist...not in the least bit.

NG61...fading back into the shadows...

JayandMay 53M/45F
21 posts
5/18/2006 4:23 pm

I have to say that I tend to go for gals with dark hair, but that includes brunettes, latinas, asians... so for me it's all about contrast. I really like light or tan skin with dark hair. The darker the better. I also prefer black and white comics over color comics, so does that count? (Bondage Fairies has got to be the sexiest thing ever on paper)- LOL. Another thing that gets me is that I am attracted to cat like eyes. Asian gals often have the almond eyes that are so alluring. Eyes are the window to the soul, and are one of the most sexy features of anyone, guy or gal.

When surfing AdultFriendFinder often I find myself looking at faces, and I will admit that Asian women get my clicks. I did not start out with an 'Asian Fetish' somehow in the 10 years of my marriage to MayLingSu I've developed a real appreciation for the look. However, when I'm surfing, if the profile is too generic and does not convey character, I move on. In the long run it's all about personality. Sure I start at looks, but without the beauty on the inside, it seems like a waste. I need smart girls, and that is top priority. Smart girls are better in bed.

Your profile turns me on because it's got attitude, dark humor, and it's a little punk rock. What the hell. From what I can tell from a profile, I think I'd really like you. It doesn't hurt that I'm also attracted to your pixie look, Asian or otherwise. You just seem to be my type, full package. It makes me glad just to know you are out there.

Now if we didn't live so far away from one another - LOL.

Thanks for blogging, your topics are interesting. Now I'm gonna spell check this thing so I don't look like an idiot.

Take care, Jay.

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
5/20/2006 3:55 pm

A lot of it is, I hate to say, American men think all Asian women are subservient. They immediately think you've all had Geisha training, even if you're not Japanese. They don't know the differences between cultures in Asia, or the fact that Asian women raised here tend to be more dominant. I have a friend who is very dominant, refuses to settle, is Chinese and men pull that entire, but aren't you all trained to be Geishas? Aren't you all supposed to view men as superior?

Then there's the exotic factor. Interracial sex. This fits in with the fetish factor. The men who write always have to mention their fetish and think we're supposed to be complimented that we fit the specifications. I constantly get, "I love older women." "I've always wanted to try an older woman." Know which of the younger guys I actually meet? The ones who never say that! The ones who are mentally attracted by what I have in my profile. The ones with common interests. Not because they've always wanted to fuck someone in my age range, or of my race, (I get a lot of black guys in Newark who want white, older women,) or because of my weight. They don't care I have a mind, or something to say, or interests. They just want to satisfy a sexual fetish.

Now, that guy who wrote to you, no big loss. He can't use proper verb tenses, he can't spell simple three letter words, he's obviously a complete fucktard. By spelling out what you want, you actually saved an entire continent of women from his badgering. He'll probably end up being screwed in a Russian bride scam and he probably deserves it.

8337 posts
5/21/2006 12:32 am

I think Ann has a point.

The subservient factor does come in to play for alot of men, but even that is just a stereotype.

I don't think you're racist for the very same reason I don't think I'm racist for not finding asian women attractive.

I never have, but that's just a preference......not because I don't like asian people as a race.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

BlondieInOz 36F

5/22/2006 11:42 pm

I suspect that its only boredom. Maybe they see asian women as very different, and different equates with exotic for them.

Ive had heaps of the reverse, as a skinny long-haired teenage blonde gaijin in Tokyo when I was growing up.

BlackSailorMan 52M
79 posts
5/24/2006 12:13 am

Do people even know how big "ASIA" is? Do people realize that Instanbul, Turkey is the only city in the world that is split with one side on Europe and the other side on Asia? Do people realize that India is part of Asia? Personally I hate the term Asian women or Asian anything because I have been to many parts of Asia and its such a diverse continent. I have had the opportunity to have sex with many women from different parts of Asia. And its hard to even pick one particular culture because people are different within cultures and sub-cultures!

badaffattitude 52F
5 posts
5/24/2006 12:23 am

This is the most articulate comment I have gotten:

there is no way you could be a GOOD FUCK if you really are a man hater, which you are going out of your way to emulate.I have never had a bad piece of ass from an Asian,they are always passionate,skillful and quite willing to please.In fact,some of the best pussy I've enjoyed was Asian.
I say again,you are way to cute to not be great at fucking.

rockman327 62M

5/28/2006 6:31 am

No you are not racist. Sexual preference is all about attraction. You have no control over what physically attracts you to a specific person. But why do men like asian women? I am one of those. And for me it is the exotic look to them. I love the small, petite bodies, the contrast between the jet black hair and their skin tone, and they way they carry themselves. The last one I cannot really explain is is more of a feeling I get than anything else. I just think they are very sexy. Yourself included. But like any race not all asians are attractive and sexy. But like Jay stated it starts at looks and then progresses from there to personality. They must have both.

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