I need help.....  

babysgotblueeyez 54F
1035 posts
6/12/2006 8:50 pm

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6/15/2006 9:59 pm

I need help.....

Feeling kinda funky today...Not really sick, per se but queasy, nauseated, headache, just feeling crappy.All I want to do is sleep...

Maybe I'm feeling badly for dumping the "cry guy" but it was a necessary step. I can't tolerate controlling people or being dictated to about how I spend my time or whom I spend it with. Perhaps I've been on my own too long to be able to function in any kind of a relationship...I dunno...I'm independent but do enjoy being part of a couple; the friendship, comfort, conversation, sex, a safe place to fall. But I can't deal with somone who is clingy and needy and demanding. I had a spouse like that and refuse to participate in that kind of relationship ever again.

Is it too much to ask to have someone to hang out with? See a movie with? Have dinner with? Go to bristol faire? or shopping with? Or cook dinner for? Or hang out on the deck with?? Or snuggle in bed with listening to the rain??

Must be asking too much...sigh...

Don't let your past dictate who you are but let it part of who you will become.


bigjack0001988 30M
7 posts
6/12/2006 9:05 pm

Sound like fun baby.

timberwolf6972 45M

6/12/2006 10:02 pm

I agree with you, I also will not be controled! Life is far too short to put up with dumb shit. I do what I want and when I want. This does not change for anyone that I'm with. They can either deal with it or start stepping! {=}

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
6/12/2006 11:59 pm

It's not expecting too much. Just need to find someone who feels the same way you do. Hang in there.



kittys4me2 55M

6/13/2006 2:07 pm

Well it creeps me out to hear that there are guys like him out there.I am a bit like you in a some ways...going by what i have read here and at the group.

You did the right thing.you must look out for #1.You say you feel you have been on your blog too long to be affective in a relationship.I have been out of the loop way to long(I stuck my self into my work to distract me)myself.Truth be told,i am frightened of givivng my ALL.Thats part of what happened in "I FEEL LIKE CRAP"post.

You did the right thing.....now....WILL HE?

irishtongue71 52M

6/13/2006 7:14 pm

Blue...my 2nd dressed me like a Ken doll. I'm still trying to get over those scars. I did all her Kindergarten computer work (she's a teacher), and made nice little DVD videos at the end of the year for graduation. Lots of other horrible details I'd hate to get into.....

Bottom line is....I've pretty much settled on the fact I'm on my own for now. Need to get on my feet and need to make friends.

M&S has been a great hangout online at times.


rm_bshwkr1961 57M  
7 posts
6/14/2006 6:18 pm

no one has the right to control you cept you, I think you did the right thing. Hopefully he gets the hint. Finding someone to hang with seems harder than one would think.. least I think so...I'm not into shopping but ifn ya just want someone to just hang with I usually don't have anything to do..........

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