The Preconceived Perceptions in our Minds  

b4brace 58M
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4/23/2006 12:21 pm

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The Preconceived Perceptions in our Minds

I hope nobody takes my posting the wrong way; I am looking for an honest life long relationship. My work keeps me vary busy so meeting and courting someone special, out side of work is hard.
All of my friend are married or have live-in girl friends; I don’t tell them how lonely it is here for me. I have been here for eight months now and its not getting any easier. I’ve had some dates none in witch I care to see again! some people are vary hurtful by not telling the truth toward others. Let me tell you about one of my dates! Moreover, How painful it was!
We have been writing each other for a about 2 weeks and that she was everything in her profile and more! OK good match you would think?. Well here’s my point!
She made reservations at a five star restaurant in my name and we meet 1/2 way from each others home, OK I’m cool with that. So she called me and side she was going to be a little late, So I sat down and had a cocktail.
A 1/2hr. later the nightmare started. I was setting at the table when this lady walks in stumble-ling and drinking a Budweiser walks right by the receptionist, spots me and in a loud raspy,hillbillyish voice “are you Brace come on answer me, ARE YOU BRACE you look better than your photo does you hunk of man”.
At this time I was thinking of growling under the table and saying NO,NO, NO he is not me, well I figured she shut-up if I introduced myself and have her have a set down, but as I was thinking that, she flop’s down on the chair beside me and go’s on in a loud voice. “I guess you can see I’m not 47, I’m 63 and I’m going to give you the best blowjob you ever had!!! let’s eat.”
I would not have done what I did next, but I felt responsible for her? Nevertheless, I throw down a twenty and I ran as fast as my legs would carrier me out the door and never looked back.
She wrote me the other day and told me how sorry she was, how lonely she was and sorry for not telling me the truth about herself.
I wrote her back and told her she would do much better for herself, if she told people who she is; not who she wanted to be.
We all have preconceived perceptions in our minds of how someone would be, I try not to,
I like to think that I look inward not outward at people and not be judgmental towards others.

With that; I’m just going to keep on keeping on, looking for that “one and only gal” no matter how long it takes or how fare, I no I will find her some day.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/23/2006 4:23 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

rm_moon_dancer3 57F
1 post
5/3/2006 6:13 pm

i think you will find what you are looking for. it is real hard sifting through all the other stuff to find it. you and i are very similar. i am sorry you had to experience that. it makes the nice girls look bad. i personally am a nice girl

ladyoftheevening 59F
1 post
5/3/2006 7:40 pm

I dont blame you I would of probably done the same thing u did.She shouldnt of lied to you thats not right.Im finding out if Im true and honest to others than I am the same with myself.Keep your chin up for shes out there.And you will find her.

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