Happily Married???  

aspiderman4u 61M
5 posts
2/4/2006 7:12 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Happily Married???

What the hell is up with these women? I can see lokking around for someone else if your in a bad relationship, or trying to out of one, but htese women who say "I'm happily married" Obviously they are not "happily married or why would they be looking for other men to fuck. I just don't get it?

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
2/4/2006 8:13 am

Too make them happier Unless you are a swinger, its hard to understand.

Purry {=}


MarinadelMar 60F

2/4/2006 8:17 am

Why do you assume that every married woman is here on AdultFriendFinder looking for other men to fuck?
I'm happily married and I am definitely NOT looking for other men to fuck - I value my marriage too much to risk destroying it. But I don't see anything wrong in chatting, teasing, flirting, or indulging in a spot of cybersex occasionally.
Why does that indicate that I am not happily married?
Incidentally, my husband has benefitted immensely from my online exploration of my sexuality - he has a real spring in his step and a sparkle in his eyes these days
I see your profile gives your status as single so please don't make assumptions about situations you obviously know nothing about

sideline1968 49F

2/4/2006 9:03 am

aspiderman4u now, now. Aren't you being a bit judgemental? I'm here. I'm looking. I'm happily married.
But then again, so is my hubby. Does this eliminate me from your generalization?

Could it be, that married women are just flat out bored with what they have at home ... and are trying to prove to themselves that they are still attractive to the opposite sex?

Could it be that they honestly love their spouses, but are no longer getting 'enough' at home. Maybe he works a lot and is to tired to give her what she needs.

aspiderman4u 61M

2/8/2006 6:11 am

This is response to the comment made by Marinadelmar. I have been married before and it's certainly not my first rodeo, so I do know what I'm talking about. I just feel that if you HAPPILY married you wouldn't be looking for someone else. hense the word HAPPILY. Like my 'ol man used to say,"If your going to be in a relationship don't fuck around an if your going to fuck around don't be in a relationship. thanx, BYE

Serendipity555 106F

2/18/2006 1:23 pm

aspiderman4u...I happen to see it your way also. If all these "HAPPILY MARRIED" folks were really "HAPPILY MARRIED", then ALL THEIR NEEDS WOULD BE BEING MET. This also includes those looking for sex experiences with their same sex.

When things are, "NOT ENOUGH" or they are "flat-out bored", within the relationship you have, you work it out or get out. I do not see "cheating" in any form, open or behind the other one's back, as an option...not for me anyway. And I do not care to be with anyone that thinks that way. BUT...to each their own...they are the ones that will answer for their actions later...as I will for my actions I choose.

A small note here...I do understand that people Swing...but to me, that's like telling your partner that they do not meet your needs and that you need more, you are not happy with what they can give you of themselves. This is insulting, a slap in the face...whether it's an agreed upon choice or not. Deep down inside it's still an insult.

But, Like I said...this is MY OPINION and no one else's. I will live with my preferences and others will live with theirs.

BTW aspiderman4u, YOUR ol'man was correct!

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