angelique392 49F
62 posts
7/30/2006 11:11 am

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7/31/2006 10:31 pm


There are three basic ways in which male and female sexual response are different in bed that you'll need to keep in mind. These differences determine the basic rhythm and pacing of good sex.
First: under ordinary circumstances she can have multiple orgasms in fairly rapid succession, while you can't. This is the most important difference and the one least affected by psychology, mental attitude, or self-training.Second: under ordinary circumstances, she will take more time to warm up to the point where a really satisfying orgasm is possible than you will. Intimacy and trust can shrink the difference but aren't likely to erase it completely.
Third: her response will vary in subtler and less predictable ways than yours. The best places to stimulate her will wander around; also, women vary as to whether they want progressively heavier or progressively lighter stimulation as they approach orgasm. Her attitude and self-training matter here; women with more experience and/or fewer inhibitions tend to have a simpler and more robust response to stimulation, more like a man's.These three differences set your basic policy. Unless you know differently about the specific woman you're in bed with, the two basic things you need to do to be a good lover are slow down and pay attention.

The classic male failure mode is to jump on the woman, rush through foreplay, plug a cock into her pussy, and gallop to orgasm before she's even completely warmed up. If she comes at all under that kind of treatment, it's going to be just a shadow of the rip-snortin' multiorgasmic joyride a good lover would take her on.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/30/2006 11:42 am

Angelique....this was a really good post....and one that all men should read. Just a little time spent in foreplay can change an ok sexual encounter into an unforgettable one!

druidrocker 63F

7/30/2006 11:51 am

E X A C T L Y - thanks for putting this out there !

ShaneLiveLife 51M

7/30/2006 11:59 am

Is this high school ?

Of course we (men) all knew this .....

Live with passion !

angelique392 49F

7/31/2006 8:17 pm

yeah it reealy good for THE MAN in AdultFriendFinder

angelique392 49F

7/31/2006 8:19 pm

no problemo

angelique392 49F

7/31/2006 8:23 pm

nO BODY perfect OK!


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