Where we stand in relationships: Feb 24th, 2006  

angeleyes75mp 43F
4 posts
2/24/2006 10:27 pm

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4/6/2006 11:30 am

Where we stand in relationships: Feb 24th, 2006

Aloha, everyone! I've been waiting to post something like this for some time now.. just never really gave it any time nor thought to just DO IT! So, here I am!
First of all, My name is Ali. I've got 4 children, 2 of which live at home full time (ages 5 and 6), I was married the first time for over 10 years, but the second was nothing but a disaster! 2 1/2 years and just wasted it totally down the drain. After about 4 months of being separated and awaiting my 2nd divorce, I met someone from AdultFriendFinder. Neither of us had any intentions whatsoever to get serious, but it suddenly happened just a month after we started dating. I mean, he's gorgeous, sexy, says all the right things (at first, of course.. don't ya know, they all have to put on a good front for us, ladies.. hehe), but he's never been married, has no children, nor had he been dating anyone for over 3 years, or something like that. I made a vow to myself, after my separation and before I met 'Mike', that I'd never let myself fall in love again, nor for anyone who treated me like my second husband did. I let my guard down, fell in love, and I was literally 'swooped' off of my rocker and my emotions went wacko, and started having those 'trust issues'.. I knew right then and there that I was NOT ready for any relationship, nor should I have even started dating. But, I assume that LOVE has no time nor limits.. everything special usually and mostly DOES happen unexpectedly.. However, I heard many things about meeting men/women online, and I was totally shocked of how it actually really works.. there ARE real people out there, BUT!!!! You HAVE to be careful. I didn't realize until AFTER the fact, that I had set myself up for some more danger/hurt and everything else I let myself go through the last time around. Not only were Mike and I far apart, but he acted as if he never wanted me around, only for the first 5 minutes.. He paid absolutely NO attention to me, didn't like affection AT ALL unless it was absolutely convenient for HIM, didn't respect ME as a woman.. Now, ladies, watch out.. guard your heart in everything you do.. men, you too.. this goes for BOTH.. Anyway, I'm totally ready to meet someone who fits the criteria of a resume of a future date for me.. I'm so sick of not being important enough, tired of not being treated with the respect and dignity I deserve. I KNOW I deserve better, we ALL know we deserve to be treated with the same, so we all need to be careful on whom we choose.. that is, IF we are all choosing to settle down or even DATE.. Even "I" wouldn't date a disrespectful bastard whose only consideration is toward themselves. If you guys have a story you'd like to share, let me know.. any comments? Feel free.. If anything negative, just keep it to yourself.. lol.. I just want for us all to be here to help each other out.. hey.. ya never know.. we all may need that one day.. Check daily for updated blogs/postings.. Take care, guys!

timberwolf6972 45M

2/25/2006 12:15 am

Hi Angel, Welcome to blogging!

norprin5 56M

2/25/2006 12:21 am

angeleyes...you may have stumbled upon a group of people who can listen, help, be your friends...

why don't you follow me back to my blog, meet some of the gang, introduce yourself around...

welcome to blogland

King Nor XVIII

rm_Keystone3812 66M
583 posts
2/25/2006 4:36 am

Good Luck, Angel.

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