Wanna kiss or fuck?  

amberabercrombie 38F
11929 posts
4/7/2006 7:26 pm

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6/29/2006 9:47 pm

Wanna kiss or fuck?

I have to confess, I’ve been sitting here tonight thinking about how I miss a good long sensual, mouth watering, make me wet, cream my pants, lord I cant wait to fuck him kiss, the kind of kiss you get on a second date, your properly wondering why I say second date...right?.... No? Well hell you know im going to tell you anyways...

To me the first kiss is the initial attraction, chemistry if you will, your both hot and tense for one another and there is no logical thought to that kiss, that kiss is simply what I like to call the *hormonal kiss*

Im partial to the second one, the second kiss is the one you have to think about, the logical one, the one where he and she both asks, did we like each other enough to kiss again....that’s the kiss that lets me know there was enough logic and chemistry there to receive another kiss and so it means that much more to me.....a good second kiss can leave me with nothing but sensual pleasures...

That kiss can be so much more explosive than sex, love making or fucking (there is a difference in all three, wanna argue? Bring it on )....a good second date kiss can make me weak in the knees, leave me moist and leave a smile on me for days, kissing is such an intimate form of love making all on its own, don’t you think?.....As much as I love to make love, it’s the long lasting wet kisses that leave the impression on me.

So I ask you, what are you most partial to ....the first kiss, the second kiss or the love making kisses...do you put logic into who you kiss?

reverend21 50M
1913 posts
4/7/2006 7:44 pm

I'm partial to any and all kisses. I beleive that the first kiss should be so enticing that the thought of demands the second, and they should increase with intensity as the attraction grows stronger. Sex is great (from what I remember) but the kiss and everything leading up to sex must be equally enticing as this only adds to and becomes the act of truly making love. Questions? or is this a satisfactory comment on your question?

bardicman 51M

4/7/2006 8:07 pm

I have to agree with the reverend.

I am not dead yet

rm_yukonpaul 52M
1120 posts
4/7/2006 8:39 pm

I haven't kiss anyone since 1998.

intierzha 44M

4/7/2006 8:42 pm

Sometimes one can be logical when leading up to the kiss(es). Sometimes we think things through too much (seriously guilty here). But when it is the right moment, thoughts and logic disappear in the moment... and if time and place is forgotten, knowing only the kiss, well... that is truly special. I have to admit, there is something about kissing all night and watching the sunrise while making love without having sex that warms the heart of every romantic.

Have a great weekend,

SlowPlayin 51M

4/7/2006 9:04 pm

If I think there is a strong mutual attraction I'll make sure the first kiss isn't a goodnight kiss ... rather a spontaneous kiss sometime during the date, hopefully timed so that it feels natural ... short enough not to be presumptive but long enough to make her wonder what it might lead to the next time it happens.

It can sure be the deal maker or the deal breaker.

But you're right ... I WAS "proberlly" wondering why you said the second date ... you're way too cute.


docdirk 48M

4/7/2006 11:09 pm

I truly enjoy the first kiss. It's a mix of excitement, trepidation, awkwardness, promise, hope... It is the acknowledgment that the attraction actually does exist, is mutual, and is more than just a wanna-be-friends connection. It is nervous excitement - learning the contours of a new mouth, what it likes, how it maneuvers, how it responds, what it has to offer. Oh, and exactly how long is the first kiss with the new lips supposed to last? How long is too long? Did I pull back too quickly? So much freshness, it's hard to beat.

Of course, the second kiss... when you anticipate its arrival all night, knowing in the back of your mind that both of you want the formalities of dinner/movie/concert/conversation to be done with so that you can just reconnect, at long last, salivating, anticipating...

Yeah, that's good too!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

Fox4aKnight1 44F

4/7/2006 11:11 pm

oh heavens .....I think kissing is so much more personal that just sex ....I have been told that sometimes my kisses are much more sensual than sometimes having sex with some gals *shrug* ....I just love it

im_curious_4u 51M

4/7/2006 11:13 pm

I agree the Rev said it well.

There is nothing like a long deep passionate kiss. Oh yea!

oldude1946 72M

4/8/2006 2:59 am

I knew this country boy who use to fuck cows but he quit because it was to far to go around front to kissem

hansum_strangrr 48M
384 posts
4/8/2006 4:18 am

We were thinking alike last night. I wonder if you had a chance to read my post. [post 301220]. I think a kiss is that one thing that will linger in your minds eye and get you thinking if you want to see them again or not. To be blunt... you can fuck my brains out, but if you have a hard, cold, lifeless kiss, don't expect me to call.

Everybody Dies, Not Everyone Really Lives.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/8/2006 6:16 am

I like those kisses where you are so hungry for reach other that you are up against the wall and ripping each other's clothes off!

Purry {=}


im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
4/8/2006 6:40 am

You aren't meant to think on the first kiss? Fuck me I must be doing something wrong. I am doing so much thinking by that stage I could be on a journalism course. When? Where? Why? How? Argh breathe. For me the first kiss is just important as any other. I'm a picky sod not many get to that stage if they got that first kiss they pretty damn special. Probably why I put too much thinking into it. Or maybe I just over think everything.
As much as I'd enjoy arguing with you I just can't bring myself to do it on this occassion I totally agree with you, sex, fucking and love making are totally different. The argument will have to come later.

Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
4/8/2006 7:29 am

I know this kiss! mmmmmmmm

smackyman 47M
3849 posts
4/8/2006 7:44 am

I'm going to line up behind Purry - because she has the right idea!!

rm_luvhungr 74M
3 posts
4/8/2006 8:42 am

You look great. maybe we can chat sometime.

Naughty12plzU 60M

4/8/2006 10:07 am

I have to agree with you. A kiss says a whole lot. That first kiss usually givs some indication that....hmmm, perhaps we should try this again. Then that follow-up opportunity arrives and if the chemistry was right.....WOW! I personally love kissing..alot. There is an intimacy about it that is just so hot and such a big turn on. And like good making love, there is an art to great, sexy, searingly pleasurable kissing that ignites an unquencable fire of desire and leaves your body and senses tingly. Kissing while making love is numerous concurrent pleasuring sensations and is usually lost to the overall moment, while a great kissing session..........there is only one sensation and the intensity of it can be enjoyed to the fullest. And...it usually lasts a lot longer too.

rm_acer57 60M
124 posts
4/8/2006 11:59 am

When the topic of kissing comes up I can't help but hear the tune Passionate Kisses (by Lucinda Williams, Mary-Chapin Carpender, et al)...

I guess I'm partial to the second, they can be fleeting over the relationship, but very memorable.

RIDDLER690069 48M
1 post
4/8/2006 3:01 pm

The first kiss can be a magical moment representing anticipation. The second kiss is comfort in knowing. The first kiss entwined in passion is pleasure of wanting and desperation. It's the kiss 20 years from now that ask? ARE YOU STILL AS HUNGRY FOR THE ONE YOU STARTED WITH NOW AS FROM THE BEGINING! 30 YEARS FORM THE FIRST KISS ARE YOU SITLL HUNGRY FOR HIS/HER TOUCH AS FORM HIS/HER FIRST? Kisses fade as does sex but the hunger for the one person above all last forever! AND I HUNGER FOR THE ONE!!!!

rm_cnilingsfan2 49M
158 posts
4/8/2006 4:57 pm

I have to agree with purry, but I think I would like to be in front of her

rm_DrBuzz2 47M
112 posts
4/9/2006 3:46 am

Hi Amber - great blog...hits areas I have not though about before as AdultFriendFinder blogs often do.... as you say its all an education!! That's a lovely seductive and sultry pose in your pic

For me its the first kiss when the desire is literally oozing out of the two people. Both parties wil be lost in each other at this moment as you are both unsure of how it will turn out as you try to meet each other's hearbeat and rhythm all through a kiss - the tension adds to the wanton lust...

I remember walking past a girl in a nightclub once and our eyes just connected. Neither of us said a word but fell into that first kiss which lasted minutes and felt like much longer. Once we came up for air we smiled wickedly at each other and I carried on walking never to see her again. To this day I remember that as an awesome first kiss and it felt so right at the time to leave it at that, but still not completley sure why we did leave it....

tomsbraves 47M

4/9/2006 9:19 pm

I think kissing is very important to the romance part of intimacy. it's definitly gets me in the mood and is very hot! if you know how to kiss right then you know how to give oral the right way!! I love to kiss!

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
4/11/2006 1:03 am

Bring it on Miss Amber, bring it on! Any time you want to argue feel free to come knocking, just don't sue me for damages if I win

tomsbraves 47M

4/11/2006 5:08 pm

maybe I can be the judge of that. anytime you want to test that out you let me know. I love to talk. hotmail me @ AdultFriendFinder I'll talk to you all night long! I'm sure you give EXCELLENT head and every guy that is lucky enough to have experianced your talent is very fortunant and I'm extremely jealous of them.

goodguysneedit2 57M

4/11/2006 7:12 pm

Amber... you definitely hit upon a fine topic...lol
I'm not sure if it's the second,third or what..but it's when all the "go-lights" are lit...and you both just suck into each other within satiable magnetism.
But where I personally shine is when things are relaxed,we are lying side by side comfortably and I gently take the lead...just follow me,feel me and float with me for minutes that turn into hours

You are right Amber--the lips are a direct connection to the loin.

Dammit...why'd you have to ask that!
Arrrg!!!C'mere somebody!


DarkSidion 35M
2 posts
6/29/2006 10:41 am

Well I thin that the second kiss can be one of the best. As you said it is the kiss that says "Now I know I want to get you better." and it always seems like there is more passion in it then the first. But to tell a story of a good kiss. I had never seen this girl before and she was talking to my girlfriend at the time and they were laughing and carrying on. I thought "I want to know who it is so I walked up to them and before I could say any thing she kissed me long and hard Nothing happend but it was not until about 5 mins after the kiss and she had gone that i realized it was someone I had picked up at a night club. best part found out it was one of my girl friends best mates.

Hope you enjoyed anyway
signed ThE LoStOnE

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