My Perfect guy, RIGHT.  

amberabercrombie 38F
11929 posts
1/11/2006 6:11 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My Perfect guy, RIGHT.

What is the perfect guy, is there such a thing?

All I know is I sure know mine.

He's sexy, casual, intelligent, he wouldnt mind spending a Saturday night infront of the tv with me while im sitting there in my Maple Leafs Jersey drinking a beer yelling at the game, hes sexual, funny, witty, sarcastic, he dosent mind that I have faults, dosent mind that I burned his dinner for the 5th time that week, laughs at all my silly jokes, plays with my hair, sends smiles to me from across the room, he loves to travel, he dosent mind that I like control in the bedroom, he likes the fact that I NEVER take a whole lot seriously and occasionally talk to much during sex, he dosent mind that I almost ALWAYS have my foot in my mouth.

He likes the fact that I have small boobs, he dosent mind that I have to work out 7 days a week and my career is very important to me, he loves children, has a passion for anything fun, he wouldnt mind if I said *hey honey I just want to cuddle tonight* hed wrap me in his powerful embrace daily, making me feel as though im the single most important woman in his world, he likes to play sports and dosent mind that I could kick his ass at almost everything , a fun Sunday afternoon for him would be playing catch by the water front. Am I crazy, is this man out there? Dare to dream....

You tell me, whats your ideal woman? I know you have to have her in the back of your head, whats shes like?

CanberraPlayer 36M

1/11/2006 7:29 am

I also used to look for a "hottie foreigner with a PhD," which was pretty easy to find in grad school. But I grew to hate every one of those women. Why? I mean, they were all well educated, well traveled, independent, career-oriented, beautiful ladies. What was the problem?

I was picking girls based on an attribute, rather than considering case-by-case. I learned that by having a "type," I was creating an arbitrary constraint that prohibited me from looking at else was around. I was unfairly promoting one woman above another, based on something pretty superficial.

Now I just keep an open mind and talk to everyone out there. I find it's a much better approach.

SlowPlayin 52M

1/11/2006 9:35 pm

You had me right up until ... "I could kick his ass at almost everything"... what? Are you serious? LOL... not EVERYTHING. You're one of a kind, girl. From what I know of you, you're going to find and have everything you want in a lover ... and so is he... Jim

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