the best lover....  

alwzwetbbw 38F
213 posts
5/9/2006 10:38 am

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11/15/2006 7:36 pm

the best lover....

Okay, yes, I'm only 27 and yes, I've not been with dozens of men but....

In my short experience with men, I've found I get really irritated if it isn't a give-give situation.

I love to please, honestly. But I have been in situations twice now where I please, and please well and then I get nothing in return

The best lovers I have had to date are those who put me first. Those lovers have also found that the more they are willing to give, the more willing I am to put everything into my reply.

So I'm curious, what qualities do you think make the best lover/sex partner/fwb/etc.?

rm_MrViagra06 35M

5/9/2006 11:05 am

ditch the guys who dont give back!

first of all, i love to give and give and give, and if i get it back in return (and get it back really good) it just makes me wanna please them again!

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:28 pm:
sounds like you got it figured out

rm_Harved9 68M

5/9/2006 11:08 am

you know that is a difficult question

i think that it varies from man to man and definately by age

one nite stands and short flings are different from ltrs

also married men are different from single guys

you might try being bold and just telling the guy what you want him to do to you and then hold his head down and don't let him up

i would like that


alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:28 pm:
i agree it depends to some degree....however, it should always be a give, give....

rm_MDsearching 65M

5/9/2006 11:30 am

You are right. The best lovers are the ones that take the time to make sure that both of you are getting what you need. It may take a little extra time, but it is worth it.

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:28 pm:
hells yeah it is

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
5/9/2006 11:35 am

A person that is NOT Selfish and Willing to Ask you what your Needs are!!! And a Lover that tries to fulfill your fantasies is also a KEEPER!!! Nice Meeting YOU.

G the Female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:29 pm:

cockerham 47M  
12 posts
5/9/2006 10:53 pm

The best lovers are willing to please, willing to listen, and willing to try new things. They are also people that you like.
As far as not being willing to give back, that is just rude. There are those of us that are willing to give as good if not better than we get. There are also those of us who do not expect it in return, we just give it because we like to.

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:29 pm:
it is rude....i hope i never have to come across it again.

insolentone2 38M

5/10/2006 7:39 am

Maybe you need a little get, get, get, give experience sometime?
The post is kind of two different subjects to me. Giving and receiving is a must IF it is wanted. I've found some girls who don't like it. (either one), then some that just didn't like it because it wasn't done (I don't want to say 'right') well. But like with most things, if you want a girl to do something that she's a little hesitant to do, a little extra work down there usually helps sway a decision.

As for the best lover. I dunno, one who I can tie down and have my way with sounds good to me!

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/10/2006 8:30 pm:
see, you got it figured out

insolentone2 38M

5/11/2006 8:11 pm

So which one are you asking? And which one do you want?

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/12/2006 4:12 am:
um...i'll take excellent oral and being tied down any day of the week....

rm_Leo_Aries 63M/61F
117 posts
5/12/2006 12:11 am

Hi, we are into 3 sums of FMF, we know that it is all about giving and does not work as one on one or 2 on one or whatever if one or the other is selfish, if Aires (male) does not give me or the other woman several cums before he has his, then we would not be doing this.for us, its all about the pleasure, we measure satifaction in cums.........eheheh

Better luck finding a good man.Bye L&A... xxxx

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/12/2006 4:13 am:
Nice. I was wrong. I think you ladies have it figured out. May the hunt continue

insolentone2 38M

5/12/2006 7:43 am

Ok, so, I have the rope, and a Tongue.. All that's missing is the person on the other end!

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/12/2006 9:01 pm:
Dont tempt me!

rm_Leo_Aries 63M/61F
117 posts
5/12/2006 2:15 pm

hi alwzwetbbw, thanks for your reply.......and glad to see you have not gien up, its all in the selection and ground rules....

Bye xxxxxxx L&A

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/12/2006 9:01 pm:
LOL. I'm no quitter and your right it is all about selection and ground rules.

sexwyounow 51M

5/12/2006 7:59 pm

I adore women and I love to please a woman. Nothing gives me more satisfaction than pleasuring a woman watching and listening to her as she squirms and moans in total ecstasy as I tantalize her and play with her body ummmmmmmmmmmm!

Then she can do whatever she wants to me!!!!!! Isn't that a good thought????

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/12/2006 9:02 pm:
Sounds as if you have it figured out

insolentone2 38M

5/12/2006 10:11 pm

So, grab one of these guys who only wants to pleasure the woman, let him down on you, and you can return the favor to me
I AM trying to tempt you.

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/13/2006 3:30 am:
Oh no sweetie, that isn't how it works. The point is that I give to those who give. ;P

rm_mrkennedy71 46M

5/13/2006 12:33 pm

for me its all about foreplay and giving to eachother. Personally I could give a woman oral until shes "finished" I will have already gotten off from the moaning and the knowlegde of her getting off with what I'm doing. It lets me know I doing something VERY WELL

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/15/2006 3:20 am:
nice that is the way to be

insolentone2 38M

5/14/2006 7:23 am

I know, I just like to be lazy sometimes Not always though.. Well, there's always holding the camera! haha..

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/15/2006 3:22 am:
LOL. No laziness allowed. Smart ass

rm_slims713 43M

5/15/2006 5:07 am

Hey sexy i think that is is more important to get the woman off a few time before we even start to fuck.. i love foreplay and hearing a woman enjoy what i am doing to her..

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/15/2006 2:13 pm:
and that is fantastic. never stop doing that

insolentone2 38M

5/15/2006 7:30 am

Ok, fine.. Let's just meet up before you leave, or when you get back and go ahead and get the four hour foreplay over with!

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/15/2006 2:13 pm:
4 hrs.? promise?

insolentone2 38M

5/16/2006 8:19 am

Yeah, I'm free during the day tomorrow, don't know when you're leaving.. prolly not enough time..

alwzwetbbw replies on 5/16/2006 7:41 pm:
Nope, sorry.

RottenApple70 48M

5/23/2006 7:50 am

I guess the bottom line is to receive, you must first give and give well.

alwzwetbbw replies on 6/6/2006 8:36 pm:
lol. nice conclusion

oralgiver4432 44M
2 posts
6/6/2006 8:18 pm

I really hope you read this as i am a man who enjoys (no really enjoys) giving oral to a woman. I mean when i say i enjoy it i mean it like i enjoy a nice piece of prime rib, and i'm not comparing so don't take it that way. I want to devour the pussy i want to taste every inch i want to have the juice from my forehead to my chin i want to get my face in it and eat the pussy. I dated a woman for a couple of weeks and i think i went down on her everytime we were together and i only recieved once and i was okay with it. i have never demanded or needed any oral attention from a woman. I feel like if a woman is thinking enough about me to give herself to me the least i could do is take what she gives to me and do my best to make her feel like a beautiful woman that deserves this treatment on a regular basis.

alwzwetbbw replies on 6/6/2006 8:37 pm:
i definately like your philosophy

oralgiver4432 44M
2 posts
6/8/2006 5:56 am

then you should hit me up and lets see what i can do for you.

1hornycouple42 53M/40F
1 post
11/15/2006 3:01 pm

I have found that the more time it takes to get her hot and ready the more explossive the orgasm of course I have mastered this and my wife will agree that when you spend more time slowly exploring her body everything gets excited and stimulated not just her pussy and it or should I say she pays off in the end by resiprocating of course its hard to describe but I am happy to show u if you can handle it. do you have patience?

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