Sex fading??  

alexzia 40F
68 posts
11/25/2005 9:36 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sex fading??

OK why is it that when you are in a relationship the sex is awesome in the beginning then after a few months... its seems to fade. I remember my BF saying that the first time we were together was the best sex of his life... 3hrs, 20 diff positions... i still have a couch burn scar from it lol. God... now..lucky if we go an 40 min.. thats when he even wants to penetrate.. usually im just sucking him... then i have to take care of myself... /sigh.. he claims its because he cant get me off during intercourse but im sorry i just dont fake it.. not my style I dont lie. And he knows that i never have before so its not him. LOL geeze... anyone else have this problem?

jacecan2 41M
6 posts
11/25/2005 10:16 am

that seems to be the going trend, when my gf and i got together same deal, now it seems harder than ever to get it to go longer than an hour, think it is the familiarity of the sex.

AltumHunksUnite 54M

11/25/2005 11:05 am

If you want to spice things up, they have books at some of the local adult shops. Not nudie magazines. Just books with suggestions. Last night I saw an infomercial for a set of instructional sex DVDs. I suppose if you both want to continue your arrangement, then there are plenty of options available to you. Good luck.

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hardnready4u29 42M

1/9/2006 3:07 pm

Same thing here - although it goes in waves. It will suck for a while, then get better for a month or two. Just the nature of the beast I think. That's why I'm on here...looking for fun in the "downtime". Sounds bad, but at least I'm honest.

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