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7/24/2006 5:41 pm

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7/26/2006 5:17 am


I've decided that I'm done hiding. For those of you who have kept my secret (thanks Tarzan, BiGurl)I've decided to put an end to the bullshit. There comes a time when you have to take a stand and refuse to be intimidated anymore. I've had to keep an unlisted phone # for years, change my last name, move twice, and pretty much live in terror of being found by a crazy Lebanese I was stupid enough to marry. He's found me twice and NOBODY does anything about it. He's threatened kidnapping and many other things you don't EVEN want to know about. I think it's terrible that every agency I've turned to will do nothing until he physically removes me from my home or causes me bodily injury. I have to wonder, how many others are in a similar situation? I'm a strong person, I keep a BIG dog, and an even BIGGER gun. So bring it on asshole-I'll be waiting for you! My question to all of you, what would you do in this situation? How protected are we really? We're talking about a Lebanese military man who idolizes Hitler because of his power (as did every one of his friends). We're sending our men and women overseas to fight terrorism but who's fighting it here? ARE we safer here or is that an illusion? To all of you who served or are serving in the Middle East: you've dealt with their ways, their customs, their attitudes. What do YOU think?

florallei 100F

7/24/2006 9:31 pm

Hi Hun,

I am scared for you. These people are lunatics. They don't listen to reason. They have no conscience. They want power and control and if they can't have you, they would rather kill you and the person who is the object of your desire.
I was stalked by my ex for 5 years. Restraining orders, lawyers warning him, police visits. I too hid and escaped at nights to move to another place. He found me. He threatened to chop me into pieces and throw my parts in the river. It was hell and terrifying. Still authorities can't do anything unless they see a knife driven into me...the law in our country is to weak and not enforced.
It is most often when women from abusive relationships finally leave that they are killed by their ex-partners. My heart is aching for you. I am crying as I am typing this.
I moved to another province in Canada to escape him and even then he stalked me but finally stopped because he had a business to take care of. That was 5 years ago.
They are obssessive, evil and mean what they say. Please be careful. You are not dealing with someone who is together, who has a heart, who has a conscience. I feel deeply for you. Here is a big hug for you dear friend. I shall pray for you. I don't know how else to help you. Be alert at all times.
My ex destroyed properties if he even just suspected or became paranoid about something. He broke into my home to terrorize me. I can't imagine how you must be feeling.
Be wise and be careful. Do not trust him ever ever ever even when he seems calm...that is just before the storm.
Hugs and Luv,

akron42 replies on 7/26/2006 5:27 am:
Oh Flo, my partner in crime! I'm sorry I made you sad and relive horrible moments in your life. You definitely know how it is! I can either laugh or cry, and I choose to laugh (and carry a big gun!). I'm glad you're safe now and like me, always vigilent. Thanks for telling your story and being so empathetic. Hugs to you!

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
7/25/2006 4:09 am

The best part of him ran down his mama's leg.

I will never understand men like this, they are cowards and act like spoiled toddlers who just got his toy taken away. They cry, they fuss, they hit, they bite, and they threaten and worse.

It seems that this is becoming an all to common problem, and its getting rare that I talk to a woman these days who doesn't have someone like that in there past, and the bad thing is late late at night I wonder if they worry about that person breaking in and doing awful things.

akron42 replies on 7/26/2006 5:24 am:
Thanks Kalie, I agree with all you said. He IS weak and I'm tired of running from such a person.

Phuc_Buddy 47M

7/25/2006 9:50 am

First off I think I should be wary of what I say to you so as to know piss you off....hmmmm...big dog and bigger gone makes Phuc a good boy! I'm also thinking I may want to get on your good side and offer you two questions on the [post 439296]!

On a more serious note it is a shame that no one will do anything to help you or to insure that you are not harassed. As Kalie said men like that are pitiful and weak. I am truly sorry you have to live a life like that.

akron42 replies on 7/26/2006 5:22 am:
I get TWO questions! Yeah!!!!! I pimped your post on my blog yesterday so expect some comments. I'll think about my questions and post them tonight. Look out, here I come!!!!

rm_gergle775 52M
150 posts
7/25/2006 1:34 pm

Hey Lil Bo Peep... THANK YOU! You heeded my advice and 'turned the tables', I'm VERY PROUD OF YOUR COURAGE!!! (& BIG Dog & BIGGER Gun & Overall Tenacity)! You've benn dodging this "Lebanese Terrorist" for too many years now... it's about time for The Federal Authorities; I recommend the NSA, The National Home Security Administration branch of The Domestic Anti-Terrorists Task Force. Keep attempting to "be forwarded to a supervisor" until you reach someone who SINCERELY gives a shit, and Files an Active Case File...DEPORT THE FUCK!...

Talk to you more soon.



akron42 replies on 7/26/2006 5:21 am:
Thanks Tarzan, I keep trying but nobody listens. As you know, the DA won't do anything to help, but at least I haven't heard from immigration yet. They are required to "share" anything I say with HIM, including my contact info. Keep your fingers crossed and keep swingin'!!

meerkittykat 43F

7/25/2006 3:20 pm

My personal political philosophy is very isolationist. I would be perfectly fine if we took the majority of our forces out away from the far points of the earth and focused on making ourselves stronger.

That said...sometimes the best way to deal with a bully is to show that bully that you are strong and cannot be fucked with. No more hiding-good for you.

akron42 replies on 7/26/2006 5:19 am:
Thanks meer, I needed to hear that. I agree with you about isolationism. I think we need that right now.

intierzha 45M

7/27/2006 4:54 pm

Well, you've ascertained my political views some from my blog, but this is a bit of a different situation, since you can't judge a society by its individuals and vice versa; however, this cat seems to fit the mold of his culture, especially when being spurned... and I am sure you are clearly aware of their attitudes toward women.

A lot of the problems with the Middle East start with their society. Many of them decry our secularlism as 'ungodly' but their own practices, especially the fundamentalist arms of Islam, are not even remotely in line with the spirit of their religion.

Again, when talking religion and society in the Middle East, one cannot separate church and state (with few exceptions), no matter how much we try.

As far as the personal side of things, most Muslims I have met from my various travels have been impeccable people, but then the ones who are traveling tend to be a bit more open minded than at home. I know I might be generalizing some, but a generalization is so (like a cliche) because the proof, especially in the case of the Middle East, is evident in both the historical and present record.

Ok, rambled enough... basically the point is we should take people at face value if we can, and this guy is clearly not doing his heritage or society any favors by his cowardly actions.


RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
8/4/2006 8:22 am

Dump the 9, go to a .40 or better yet, .45 ACP. A .357 is great if you can handle the kick. The .40 has not much more kick than a 9, but a hell of a lot better knock down. Few cops carry 9s anymore, the higher calibers give much better knock down. Most are now carryiung 40's. If you have a recoil problem, try a .38 spec+P wadcutter round. Not a ton of penetration, but makes large holes. If he bothers you, send him virgin hunting in Allah's place. So cool you have your own piece, and know how to use it. So does the Duchess. We LOVE chicks in chainmail! Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

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