How Akward Is This?  

akron42  
1434 posts
7/30/2006 1:21 pm

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How Akward Is This?


It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood...well you know how the song goes. It's about 95 here today so everyone is dropping by to swim. My FWB and his wife were here all morning and it gets akward. He keeps trying to tell me he loves me and trying to feel me up when our spouses aren't looking. I HATE THAT! I don't want to do anything to jeopardize my marriage and if we're honest, neither does he. As I said before, I need to lose his ass! No matter what I say, he keeps calling. And my bro inlaw's hot gf keeps talking about making out with me! Now that could get akward too. It doesn't turn hubby on to see 2 girls, but believe it or not, after a convo with his bro and bro's gf, he said he wouldn't feel it was cheating if I wanted to be with another girl! This coming from Mr. Straightlaced! He doesn't want to be present for it, just wants to know about it ahead of time. I can do that!
My question for all you peeps today (toda la gente) is this: Is your FWB causing you grief? Are you in love, even a little bit, with your FWB? Would you rather have a nonsexual friend, or a FWB? Give it up babies...enquiring minds want to know!


intierzha 45M

7/30/2006 2:23 pm

Um... Having a FWB would be ok at the moment, lol. Or just the Benefits even. Although, in a past situation, a FWB's partner fell in love with me (yes, that would be the man), and pretty much destroyed our friendship... but I had to tell him on many, many occasions that I was not into men in the slightest. Actually, how he broached it with me was funny:

Me: What can I do for you?
Him: Can I ask you something?
Me: (joking) no, (him), you can't have sex with me?
(very long, awkward pause)
Him: ok.
Me: (incredulous) That was it?! You wanted to ask that?!

I can't fault him for his directness, but I had made it pretty apparent (at least in my mind) what the boundary was.

Anywho... after that, things were strained... if you can imagine.

C.


akron42 replies on 7/30/2006 6:12 pm:
See, things are harder for guys (no pun intended!). For girls, it's no big deal to have sex with another girl, but guys feel like they're crossing a line. I'm glad you commented though, because I DO like hearing about people's adventures!

leegs55 56M

7/30/2006 4:10 pm

if u were my girlfriend u would be have so much sex..however and with whomever. nice new picture of u..i just posted a new one also.


akron42 replies on 7/30/2006 6:15 pm:
Oh leegs, you know it! Between the two of us, we would never leave the house!

meerkittykat 43F

7/30/2006 5:04 pm

Erk...well, my FWB turned into my girlfriend, so sadly I'm not the best one to answer this question.


akron42 replies on 7/30/2006 6:17 pm:
Well I count that as a success story! After the whole Maury thing, I was afraid it had gone sour!LOL

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
7/31/2006 8:54 am

You gotta be careful with FWB's I'm discovering most people can't carry on this type of relationship long term, there are too many strings when it comes to sex, these relationships are best in the short term with both people knowing that once feelings appear or inappriate behavior occurs it is over.


akron42 replies on 7/31/2006 6:07 pm:
You're so right! I thought we had all the "ground rules" covered, but he changed the rules halfway through the game!

florallei 100F

7/31/2006 9:20 am

Hey Sweetie,

Did I mention I so loooooooooove the new pic. hot and sexy...I suppose it is no wonder these guys wan'na do ya'...FWB sort of sounds impractical don't ya think? People melding bodies and minds and eventually the heart to follow suit, NO? I don't know. I am such a relational person and I think you are too since we are flippin' twins it seems hehehe, that they are drawn to YOU.
flo


akron42 replies on 7/31/2006 6:08 pm:
It's the catsuits. They can't get enough of us can they?LOL You're right, the FWB thing isn't all that practical. Thanks twin!

rm_gergle775 52M
150 posts
7/31/2006 1:13 pm

FIRST OF ALL, MY FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS THAT I AM SEEKING OUT WILL JUST HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT...AFTER THE SHIT I'VE BEEN THROUGH WITH FRIENDS-TURNED-LOVERS HAVE ALWAYS LEFT ME WITH A CHUNK OF MY HEART TORN OUT STILL BEATING IN THEIR SWEET LITTLE HANDS... MY 'TICKER' CAN'T AFFORD ANY MORE TO BE RIPPED AWAY!

IF I HAD A FWB THAT MADE THINGS STRESSFUL & UNCOMFORTABLE, I'D HAVE TO BREAK AWAY... ESPECIALLY IF THEY WERE 'OVER-STEPPING THEIR BOUNDS' AT THE WRONG PLACE OR AT THE WRONG TIME... THEY WOULD JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FRIENDS-ONLY ASPECT...

I AGREE WITH FLORALLEI TO AN EXTENT, ONE JUST HAS TO 'KNOW WHEN TO SAY WHEN'... WILL YOU "FLIPPIN' TWINS" CUM VISIT ME, I THINK I CAN/WILL ENLIGHTEN YOU BOTH... I'LL PUT YOUR MINDS/BODIES AT EASE!

OH, AND BRING YOUR BRO-IN-LAW'S GIRLFRIEND, I COULD WATCH YOU GO AT IT... 'TILL YOU WANT TO INCLUDE THIS "MONKEY"...


akron42 replies on 7/31/2006 6:11 pm:
Baby, I thought YOU loved me! Flo and I will get our catsuits out of storage and pedal on over. We could be the X-rated version of the Bobsey Twins! Oh, wait a minute. Wasn't one of them a boy? Uh oh, well maybe not the Bobsey twins after all. Maybe the doublemint twins...without the gum of course!

Djeeper1987 48M

7/31/2006 4:32 pm

Having a friend in general is best. Sex or no sex. We are adults. I think?

Carpe Diem


akron42 replies on 7/31/2006 6:12 pm:
Yeah, I THINK we are, but sometimes I'm not so sure. We've been friends for 24 years and I don't want to lose that over sex.

Djeeper1987 48M

7/31/2006 6:18 pm

Even though we are adults, that little kid can break out once in a while. I would think after 24 years of friendship, he would get his marbles back in place and wake up.
If he doesn't, I will come over and hit him on the back side of his head.

Carpe Diem


akron42 replies on 8/1/2006 7:58 am:
My hero! Bitch slap him and then say "Who's you daddy NOW?"!

bucknuts1000 59M
30 posts
8/1/2006 10:09 am

My FWB would be just that, a FWB. Point would be clear before any benefits were distributed. We have and can always use friends and each provides benefits in their own way, so to ask a friend with sexual benefits for more wouldn't be right, if you don't expect more from your non-sexual friends except what they are willing to give.


akron42 replies on 8/4/2006 7:27 am:
I agree with you. He just changed the rules halfway through the game!

leegs55 56M

8/1/2006 2:08 pm

sounds good to me!!!


akron42 replies on 8/4/2006 7:29 am:
It does? You know, I may just be going to Jersey in September for a few days. Should I look you up?LOL

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