Decision Time  

akron42  
1434 posts
8/13/2006 1:22 pm

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Decision Time


I guess you could say I had an epiphany this weekend. I went to my class reunion last night. It was great seeing old friends, catching up. But it also made me take a look at my life and where I'm heading. I think I need to take a break from starting any new physical relationships. I'm happy with the ones I've started and just can't do more than that! So I think I'll concentrate on those and hang around the blogs. I've found so many great new friends here! Everyday I look forward to reading about Magahee's off-the-wall day, or Meer's "song of the day" or Dusty's newest crew member! And Diggy and Kalie always make me think about life, dammit! And of course, Tarzan keeps me swingin'! I think I have more "watched blogs" than there are active posts! So I'm gonna change my profile, and see what happens. (It'll probably be denied!) I still plan on having fun, blogging, emailing, even camming from time to time. But for now, I've found what I came here for and don't want to ruin that. So what do YOU think? Have you found what you were looking for? Have you made lasting relationships, whether in person or in the blogs? Are you satisfied with what you have, or do you crave more?

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
8/13/2006 1:50 pm

I make you what?


akron42 replies on 8/13/2006 2:54 pm:
Well, maybe not so much lately! But sometimes you make me really think about things!

rm_smosmof2 68M
3240 posts
8/13/2006 1:51 pm

More, more, more, I must have More!


akron42 replies on 8/13/2006 2:55 pm:
Well then, I hope you get MORE, MORE, MORE! Glad you stopped by!

rm_1SweetBitch 56F
8575 posts
8/13/2006 1:51 pm

I met my man on this site almost 3 years ago...we live together and everyday is a new and exciting day for me.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch


akron42 replies on 8/13/2006 2:56 pm:
Congratulations! I'm glad you've been lucky here as well.

rm_DharmicDawn 67M

8/13/2006 2:34 pm

First, I assume you are writing from a very affirmative position which is cool, but, your large font makes it very difficult to read for comprehension.....ok?

To answer your question, yes, I have found what I've been looking for...it just took a year and a half to accept it.

To answer your other question, 'she' raised the bar so above other women even without physical contact. Do I 'crave' more? There is no 'more.'

So, I guess I don't belong here because I have never thought a 'realtionship' begins with sex. I need something a little more to get me at the intimate level and a Vicky Secret display just doesn't do for me.

But, for those who have nothing else working for them, I guess I have to respect their efforts in really bad photography and placing it in the worse possible arena.

D.D.


akron42 replies on 8/13/2006 4:37 pm:
Never let it be said that I can't take (constructive) criticism. At first I was offended by your comments, but then I checked out your profile and now I'm just a little sad about them. You seem like a nice enough guy, but why do you feel the need to judge? The pics people post here are not always indicative of how much they "have going for them". Some might say that your profile and comments show a superficiality and a tendency to use what you view as your eccentricities to be arrogant which, let's be honest, is unwarranted. For example, the comments about Vicky's Secret displays and yet you posted a pic of yourself in a Speedo. I'm sorry you haven't found what you're looking for here, sorry that you feel the need to criticize others, and sorry that you seem to be unhappy. I hope that all of this changes for you and that you find what you're looking for. You may not believe this, but I also hope you stick around the blogs. Your comments are welcome here, however you meant them, and I hope you'll take MY comments in the spirit they are offered, as someone who has also been unhappy and can understand and relate to it in others. The blogs have, at times, been a lifeline for me and you never know, they may also be for you. Thanks for stopping by.

MOfunNOWWOW 56F

8/13/2006 3:54 pm

Love hearing something good from someone {=}


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


akron42 replies on 8/13/2006 4:38 pm:
Thanks! It's nice to have "positives" in life, isn't it?

bucknuts1000 59M
30 posts
8/14/2006 4:18 am

Happy for you but also sad. I am sure you know why. However, I have met many friend here, but no one friend more than you.


akron42 replies on 8/15/2006 7:31 am:
You, my friend, are just too good to me! BTW, check your email!

intierzha 45M

8/14/2006 8:08 am

I always wish to expand my horizons intellectually in meeting new people and learning all about them, but I have been disappointed in some ways, mostly minor. The reasons I really do not need to discuss as it can sound negative and it is mostly personal. I also changed my profile from seeking the physicality of things to simply being here for the blogs and for what little regular correspondence I get, lol. In the end, it matters little. I am happy with the time I have in writing to all that I know and will know. (Present company included of course

As for the rest, you do what you feel is best of course and everything will take care of itself.

C.


akron42 replies on 8/15/2006 7:34 am:
It's nice to know not everyone feels like DharmicDawn! I guess sometimes we just have to do what works for us at that particular time. I'm really glad I'm not the only one, I've so enjoyed all the friends I've made here and love reading the blogs (yours included!) I've been wondering what you make of all the headlines we've been having and hope you plan on posting about them. You know how I love discussing all the controversy! Thanks C!

rm_gergle775 53M
150 posts
8/14/2006 10:29 am

DOLL, YOU BRING TO OUR ATTENTION VERY DEEP QUESTIONS THAT GET ME THINKING... DID I FIND WHAT I WAS/AM SEARCHING FOR? WELL, I HAVE MADE A FEW FRIENDS IN 'BLOGGSVILLE', FRIENDS THAT I HOPE WILL FOREVER BE HERE/THERE............ BUT, I HAVEN'T FOUND WHAT I'M REALLY SEEKING... INTIMACY; BOTH MENTAL & PHYSICAL!

I DID MEET & GET TO KNOW ONE WOMAN IN PARTICULAR THAT CAN 'ROCK MY WORLD' WITH A SIMPLE E-MAIL FROM HER! SHE'S BEAUTIFUL, INSIDE AND OUT! SHE 'ADOPTED' ME FROM MY FIRST DAYS HERE & NEVER 'LEFT MY SIDE'... I ADORE AND CHERISH HER FOR HER BEING HER....... SHE MAKES ME SMILE, LAUGH, TINGLE & FEEL SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD FROM AFAR... IF ONLY DISTANCE DIDN'T STAND IN THE WAY, I KNOW THAT WE'D BE 'BOSOM' BUDDIES! WE'LL MEET, SOMEDAY... AT THAT POINT I'LL PROBABLY HAVE SOME DIFFERENT ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS THAT YOU POSE... START PEDDLING, I'LL MEET HALF WAY......???

AM I SATISFIED?... NO, I CRAVE AS MUCH FRIENDLY, COMPASSIONATE PEOPLE AS ANY PERSON CAN HANDLE..... I'M A GLUTTON FOR ATTENTION, AFFECTION, INTIMACY... I FEEL THE LOVE IN WRITTEN WORDS AND PRETTY SMILES (THE CAM IS F-IN' FANTASTIC TO! I'M REALLY HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOU'RE NOT MOVING OUT OF THIS NEIGHBORHOOD, JUST GETTING MORE FOCUSED... DON'T FORGET TO 'CHECK ME OUT'... I'LL BE AROUND!... YOU CAN CUM 'BORROW A CUP OF SUGAR' ANYTIME!!!

SHOW ME, SHOW ME!!!

I LOVE YOU FOR LOVING ME!!!


akron42 replies on 8/15/2006 7:41 am:
I could never leave your side, I'm glued to it! We have becomed joined at the hip, or didn't you know? Your first blog had me hooked and everything has gone uphill from there with us. I don't think either one of us will ever run out of things to talk about, do you? And of course, the "show and tell"! I DO love you sweetie!

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