Ever had that Feeling?  

akarsno 45F
6 posts
4/11/2006 11:24 pm

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4/11/2006 11:30 pm

Ever had that Feeling?


Have anyone of you ever had that single instinct when the one you love is not telling you the truth about some things but tries to cover it up with lies?

Why should one behave in such manner if they truly do love you and have had confided in you but now have secrets?

I do not deny in every relationship there will be up and downs but do we have to lie? I have always tired not to tell a white lie may it good or bad for any reason but what is worst when the matter is more than just affection or feelings being build up but cannot one cannot face the truth and just come out with it. Why drag things to such manner when all we have to do is be frank with ones feelings and tell it like it is weather it may hurt the one that has to listen to it.

People have to realized that they cannot have life both ways, or want everything at the same time, someone or thing has to give way in order for life to go on, may it be good or bad.

Why are human so selfish to hurt one another without realizing that they are doing it??? Is it cause they have become so comfortable with each other or the later that the respect is not there any more or have they forgotten where and what brought them together in the first place to be together?

It is so sad ... to think life is unfair but who makes it that way? We do cause we had forgotten the cause or the road that once lead us here and the love/respect we once had for each other.

I hope all those people who have gone through or try to at least understand what I am saying in this msg.......... Don't lose respect for each other as time goes by in your relationship. Cause in the beginning it was never like that as we were always so eager to please one another that we forgot as years go by how with each other cause of our differences we have in some ways have grown, i do use the word change cause it is not so.The reason is ........ as .......

Though we may talk to each other and we may have different opinions, one should not lie to the one you love be small or big. Cause once you start you never stop without realizing and than the trust and doubts set in and you start to be suspicious and followed by questions which sometimes may be needed or not but there the damage is already done.

Agree? No amount of counseling could ever bring back what you had before cause "the trust" is gone and no matter how hard one tries to regain it, it would never be the same ever again.

Yes life would go on but the answers you got to what lead the relationship to be in that manner would never be enough to clear your questions and doubts in the first place.

Have you ever felt that way as I did?

rm_smosmof2 68M
3240 posts
4/12/2006 12:40 am

Sounds real familiar to me.....


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