An interesting proposition  

ahotcoup2006 41M/38F
200 posts
3/11/2006 8:38 pm

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3/22/2006 1:43 pm

An interesting proposition


I've asked a poll question which relates to a current dilemma I'm facing. I have sex with a guy who's 40+, on about a fortnightly basis. I find him quite attractive and enjoy our sex together, he's married and he would like me to play with both he and his wife (I've never met her, but seen her picture, she's OK).

So as I've been a very naughty girl recently I haven't had this guy for about four weeks, consequently he's super keen for a catch up session.

I've told him that I'm pretty busy at the moment and probably couldn't meet with him for another fortnight. At which point he's offered me cash to move him up the roster. I've never been propositioned with the offer of cash before.

I could use the cash, but conversely I'm by no means hard up for money.

Not sure where to go with this one, it does present quite a moral dilemma, not that I deem myself to be high and mighty on the moral front.

I feel very comfortable with who I am and how I conduct myself, so my questions in a little trioare these,

1. Would accepting his offer change my values? 2. Would it irrevocably change our casual sexual relationship into a business transaction?
3. Do I really care anyway?

Anyway post me your thoughts.


Shelly_Marie 45F

3/11/2006 10:06 pm

well, thats a good question. you have to decide how he would think of you after you accept money in return for it, and then do you think you would have time even if he did pay you. otherwise, I would say it could be a fun one time transaction, but I wouldnt let it be an all the time thing that he pays you.

rm_Gentle12553 68M
1378 posts
3/11/2006 10:14 pm

Hmmm...a very interesting dilemma.....1st consider how this would effect your morals....would it evoke guilty feelings that you could not deal with? 2nd...would this be your first bi experience and would that complicate your feelings? 3rd...the $$$ you didn't say how much, but let's say his offer is $500 for a night of passion...would he pay that everytime? would that make you like a hooker or a pro? 4th...would any other family or friend know?

Hard for one person to tell another what to do....As for me...I have done exactly what you are proposing and actually after some initial guilty turned out to be a wonderful experience....I actually ended up having a longer affair with the wife...and ironically without my friend ever knowing..

My advice....go for it......

Myslutwantsafuck 60M/59F

3/22/2006 3:38 am

This is the first time I have found & visited your blog and found it so interesting that I had to read all your posts. My advice, you're an intelligent, well balance & adult sensual person, make up your own mind & live with the consequences. You do not sound like the kind of woman who needs or wants guidance in matters of the sexual realm, you're highly erotic, sensual & extremely creative.

Go with your pussy vibe and sieze the day!! Whatever you decide, don't forget to share it with us mere mortal beings whom only dream of one day experiencing the carnal delights of your erotic escapades!!

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