what to do?!?  

adventuresome72 45M/49F
25 posts
9/5/2006 8:55 am
what to do?!?

So, I sort of met this lady who seems to be pretty fired up about me... I guess the diet/workout is raising some eyebrows out there. /flex

Anyways, I kinda started teasing her a lot because my feelings were that it wasn't really gonna go anywhere... next thing I know, the teasing has escallated pretty far and she's all lathered up...

We exchange cellphone emails and basically I have to backpeddle a bit to figure out how I can turn this into a 3-some.

Which begs the question, how do you turn a woman who is really heated up for you into a 3-some? Is it just a matter of getting her hot enough to agree to literally anything to quench her fires, or is it gonna be a hard sell? Better to step back a bit and try to introduce the wife (build trust and mutual interest), or try to engineer a situation that slams everyone together into something close?

Guess I should have been thinking ahead to lay the seeds of suggestion in earlier, but it just didn't seem to occur to me until after the fact that she was digging me hard. /shrug.

Advice welcome!

crazygurl2xx 58F

10/9/2006 6:46 am

logistics, logistics, logistics... i would LOOOVE to know how this works out for you!

my boyfriend has made direct offers to women he was involved with in the past. he just tells them that they are invited to join us if they would like. so far all have turned him down. apparently they only want him, but he has brought the subject up to them which i admire. i suggested starting with the most likely people first, and that would be people we already know.

on my side, i had 2 girls at work kinda interested. one has experience with this kind of thing and that may all work out in the future. the other one i finally determined i really didn't like all that much as a person and didn't want to get that close to her.

still, neither really had the element of playfulness i am looking for. i think that's going to be a big requirement, that they be carefree and playful regarding their own sexuality.

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