You can quote me  

absolutelynormal 57F
6016 posts
4/7/2006 3:45 pm

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4/9/2006 4:43 pm

You can quote me

I love the "see where I'm quoted" feature here. Today I was noticing a trend in the places where I am quoted. Seems there are more women here like me than I thought. I thought that I was the odd "man" out here, I thought most of the women here wanted something other than a relationship. And maybe most of them do, maybe there are some of us who are just more sentimental and more romantic. I also think these women think that they are as strange as I thought I was before looking at the things they were saying to me. I thought perhaps this was geographical, I'm in the south, we tend to be not as open sexually as some other places. This comes from reading posts, me replying and them replying back to me. I won't say that I have enough to say it's a scientific study or anything but I was surprised just the same. It may have to do with the blogs that I'm attracted to, most people like folks that are kind of like them, reflect their values etc. I tend to stay away from blogs that say "I went home with a guy last night and I didn't know his name but he fucked me right in the ass ALL night long." Not that there's anything wrong with that, if it's your thing, it's just not mine. I guess I want to feel special to someone and going home with someone I didn't know would hardly make me or him special.

Women aren't the only ones who want more than just sex, guys here do too, although I think most of them only admit this to me in email. It's sorta of just expected that men "spread their seed around" or are "up" for anything and many just aren't. Some of you aren't afraid to say so, some are.

Loveless sex (well ok, without some serious "like" going on) does about as much for me as sexless love. I've had both, they suck.

swlaman1 66M

4/7/2006 5:41 pm

Mac, you could reverse all the gender nouns and pronouns and I'd swear you've been reading my mind.


absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 4:11 pm:

digdug41 50M

4/7/2006 5:47 pm

I actually was in chat earlier with a female blogger and I told her thatI didnt want just a sexual tryst, I've been there before and I am more than my little head says I am. I just like this place and as I get to know some of you, I like you, do I want to sleep with every single female blogger here, oh hell nah, it aint that type of party. I just like to read if anything else were to happen well then we'd just have to see, but once they find out I'm married they arent interested and I cant say I blame them, but if I find a female who is like minded then who knows the possibilites are endless I guess. I'll stop babbling now and cyaroun the blogs

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 4:14 pm:
I know what you mean digdug. This place is more like a small friendly town at times and then sometimes like Peyton Place (for those of you old enough to remember the show).

complexlysimple 35M

4/7/2006 7:17 pm


Through the mind and heart first, and then between the legs. I just can't see myself enjoying sex any other way.

Truthfully, I'm not even sure I could follow through if my mind and heart weren't into it.

absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 4:14 pm:
And SO wise to be so young

AbeamGumboBrine 53M
3 posts
4/8/2006 4:48 am

YEAH! Well Said!
There is no substitute for feeling special and true honest emotion.

PS. How ya been?

trillionman 56M

4/8/2006 7:05 am

You know what you want Mac,I have had sex with someone I have just met and the sex was good,but I also have sex with someone that I have feelings for,the sex is so much better because the feelings are there.I know it is not just sex,it is making love.I think that it is hard for men to say that because it makes them seem weak with their emotions.I have a problem saying making love even though that is what I mean.I just say having sex for some reason.I guess I have that problem with feeling weak emotionally if I say making love. I think it is just a guy thing, for me anyway.

clevergirl4U 59F

4/8/2006 8:20 am

I agree and have known this for years. But in moments of temporary insanity, I tend to forget some of the best lessons I have learned. Thanks!

ProtonicMan 49M

4/8/2006 6:49 pm

I can't really speak to this. My experiences have been pretty limited in that regard. I guess this is something else for me to think about.


Helper874 46M

4/9/2006 4:32 pm

Now see, I knew You and I thought a lot a like, just didn't realize how much...LOL. That was about the best way You could have worded that subject. I do not want to have sex just to have it. Seems kind of pointless to me. I want it to mean something. I don't want to just shake hands when it is over, and say well that was fun, see ya later.....Sheesh!!!

Keep up the great thinking. I enjoy it!!!!Helper

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