What's the deal?  

absolutelynormal 57F
6016 posts
4/9/2006 5:26 pm

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What's the deal?

I'm sure that there is more than one woman here who can share these sentiments... why is it that all the great guys are either 1) married, 2) gay 3) or lives thousands of fucking miles from me?

Cause ya know I can't do the married or attached guy thing, it would only hurt me.

Me and a gay guy?, uhm DUH!

Hmmm, I tend to fall for the physically and/or emotionally unavailable, sometimes both rolled into one.

Oh yeah, there was the physically, emtionally unavailable guy who couldn't get it up even when we were in the same bed.

Then there's the physically available almost gay guy....

And let's not forget the crossdresser who I had to ban from writing to me anymore!

OK, that's it, I'm buying stock in Duracell!

Helper874 46M

4/9/2006 5:29 pm

Hmmmmmm.......Don't know quite what to say to you on this one. Sorry? Not sure what else to put down, so maybe best to stop here....Helper.

Helper874 46M

4/9/2006 5:44 pm

Figured out one other thing to say......love them green eyes!

absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 6:58 pm:
You do KNOW that they aren't really that green? Of course I'm not really grey either,

tillerbabe 57F

4/9/2006 5:52 pm

I've resigned myself to being alone...I just come here to BLOG now...

absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 6:58 pm:
Then keep coming here just to blog, it's really all I do. I read email and respond to it but I should do like you and just pull my profile down. Blog on Mack, get it all out of you Mac

rm_mmmgoodnova 107M/107F
1259 posts
4/9/2006 6:27 pm

Tiller: Does BLOG stand for Battery Log? LOL.

Mac, don't sweat it...I mean, what's up with those 'Bama boys, don't they know a good thing when they see it? They should be worshiping at your feet. Oh, speaking of which: did I tell you I got my first foot fetish e-mail the other day? Musta been the mention of my pink toenail polish in my one post, 'cause I certainly didn't post any feet pics...LOL. But this gent wanted to give pedicures to me AND the hubby. Hubby said "tell him yes, pedicures are expensive and summer's coming." Tempting, and the guy seemed kinda sweet, really--but I just can't use someone that way!

Best of luck, ladies, in finding that needle in the proverbial haystack...

absolutelynormal replies on 4/9/2006 7:04 pm:
I had a date with this guy ONCE. All he did was lean over the table at dinner and look at my feet, I had on open toed slingbacks... he sid "My, you have beautiful feet!" Couldnt go out with him again, just couldn't, lol.

Catharsis33 45M

4/9/2006 7:37 pm

Sorry for your troubles. Perhaps you could try women since men are not working out.

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:10 am:
All I can say to that is I DON'T FUCKING THINK SO!!!! No, I'm just not geared that way. I love men. Thanks for the suggestion though

mangomamiCT 43F

4/9/2006 7:42 pm

I understand you all too well ! Every guy I meet I really like lives 4800 miles away ............

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:08 am:
YIKES!! One of my good friends lives 9000 miles away, but he's just my buddy. Friends from allover is good too

swlaman1 66M

4/9/2006 7:58 pm

Hey Mac, could you please change that "thousands of fucking miles'' to "more than 448 fucking miles" thereby sparing my ego yet another bruise.

I have bad news. The married, the emotionally unavailable, the gay and almost gay, the cross-dresser, the more than 448 fucking miles, ultimately pale when...they are all too fucking young.

Don't over look KY Gel when choosing your stock portfolio.


absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:07 am:
I hate it that you are way down in Lousiana, it's not that far away but damn that would be a long haul! Thank you for being so sweet to me yet again

rm_4wolfsr 59M

4/9/2006 8:19 pm

I've made the same observation regarding women that you have with men. Maybe it "the grass being greener" syndrome. Out of nowhere, when you least expect it someone will come along that will fill the majority of, if not all, the things you are hoping to find. Until then, blog away.

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:05 am:
I figure that when I'm ready, something will happen. I'm not ready for a real relationship yet but I don't want just a "fuck buddy" either. So I'm actually OK like I am. Could be better but I'm ok. Thanks for visiting my blog

rm_denndenn08 58M

4/9/2006 8:22 pm

there are lots of guys who will fit your needs.don't give up,and duracell can be your friend,not areplacement.

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:03 am:
Thanks Dendenn. I agree, however I'm not the kind of woman who can just find a guy here have sex with them and that be it, which is what a lot of men want.

keithcancook 61M
17930 posts
4/9/2006 8:54 pm

Your luck is bound to improve. In the meantime,

Blog On!

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:02 am:
I intend to Keith

Helper874 46M

4/9/2006 10:16 pm

Well I figured they weren't that green, and hoped to all get out, that you weren't grey..... Still think they look amazing.....

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 3:02 am:
OK married guy, I told you, what I told you in that email, stop it! lol MAc

mycin62 55F

4/10/2006 5:12 am

LOL, too true!!

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 4:01 pm:
I think male or female we can all agree that sometimes timing sucks.

digdug41 50M

4/10/2006 6:31 am

I understand whatcha mean I feel that way about you gals

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

absolutelynormal replies on 4/10/2006 4:01 pm:
Blog on digdug

trillionman 56M

4/11/2006 3:40 pm

Quit looking so hard Mac, just let it happen.Usually when you are looking real hard for something it is under your nose,and if it was a snake it would have bit you.Relax the kind of relationship you are looking seem to just happen, when you least expect it.

absolutelynormal 57F
6563 posts
4/11/2006 3:49 pm

Nah, T'man, I'm not ready. I'm not really looking, I was just saying... anyone I would be really, really interested here is either married or taken, lives 9 gillion miles away. It seems to be an epidemic here. I won't settle for less than who I want.

rm_dcving24 44M

4/15/2006 5:39 am

Sorry but for what. Your blowing off some steam. You will find someone in due time. You are a very wonderful person. I could go on saying alot of good things about you,but I will stop at that.

absolutelynormal replies on 4/15/2006 8:08 am:
Thank you Far too kind

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