Temper Tantrum!  

absolutelynormal 57F
6016 posts
8/13/2006 6:29 am

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Temper Tantrum!

If something is bothering me, I often blog about it. Not everyone does this. I treat my blog like it's a friend that I can say anything I want to.

I can blog about whatever I want with a few exception and those are things you'd never see here anyway. I'd never threaten anyone's existance or tell a tale about abusing children.

I'm upset, I'm sad and perhaps hormonal... these days I never know. My ovaries may kick in at double what they should or not kick in at all.

It seems when I decide that I am ready for some companionship, that's when I get no email. If I were still saying NONONO, I'd get a ton.

Some here would say, Mac I don't understand. It's easy to get laid here. If that's all I wanted I could walk into a bar, go up to a group of guys and say, "Excuse me gentlemen for interrupting your conversation, but would any of you lovely men like to fuck my brains out tonight?" I think I could make it happen, don't you?

Others would say, if you want more than just a fuck, you're at the wrong website. When I went to ATL last weekend, there were couples there who met RIGHT HERE at AdultFriendFinder. So I know it's entirely possible.

It's not like I don't like sex. I'm not ugly. I am very intelligent and have an extremely warped sense of humor (which those of you who read me, already know).

There are times when I want to say just fuck it! I want to yank my profile from here, just pack my bags so to speak and leave. Sometimes this place upsets me, other times I feel it has made my life better.

I just went over to match and turned my profile back on. It's been sitting there for months turned off. I don't go by the same handle there. I haven't paid anything there, so if someone writes to me, I won't be able to read it. I just wanna see what happens. I've had several dates from there in the past.

OK, I feel better, I vented. Sorry guys. Mac

rm_mmmgoodnova 107M/107F
1259 posts
8/13/2006 6:59 am

Don't be sorry for venting. The thing is, you want more than sex. That's not a bad thing. Were I not happily married and if I didn't feel that I have found my soul mate and the one person that truly "gets" me in my hubby, I'd be looking for more, too. Truly, other than wanting to feel like there's a level of friendship for my extra sexual partners (because no one likes to feel like just a couple of orifices to fill!), I'm not looking for more than that. But you deserve more than just a fuck or even a lighthearted friendship; you deserve a true, solid relationship, love, and romance. I hope you find it because you're FAR from ugly, but more importantly, you have a beautiful heart. I think maybe you're too sophisticated for the majority of the local populace where you live (not trying to bash Alabamans, just a gut feeling I have.)


P.S. Yep, I'm procrastinating, again But my suitcases are almost packed and things are almost ready for the movers to come later this week!

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:07 am:
I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head. I don't wanna date/see/screw Bubba although Bubba might be an OK guy, he's just not my kinda guy.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/13/2006 6:59 am

The great thing about the blogs here Mac is that you really CAN say anything you want to. I guess I don't understand men at all when they are not pursuing someone as good looking and intelligent as you! Maybe they felt you were out of reach....and if they read this post will diluge your mailbox with offers! lol Anyways.....Mac....have a great sunday!

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:08 am:
I wish it were as easy as that AOM, my mailbox has not been flooded with offers other then the usual married guys (sheeesh can't they read???), dammit!

seek_u_topia 52M

8/13/2006 7:07 am

i have to say i can relate to your feelings. though more difficult for a guy to get laid, it does seem like we both want more than just the physical. for most people i think there has to be some connection to make it worthwhile.

hang in there sweetie!

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:09 am:
Mac sways in the breeze justa hanging.

lookingforfun54 61M
86 posts
8/13/2006 7:09 am

Maybe that is my problem. I want to talk with people to much so that is why I don't hear back from anyone.. Interesting thought..

Good luck

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:10 am:
Yeah, if you come on too strong, it's the kiss of death.

40lovesetmatch 60M

8/13/2006 7:57 am

Well this is better than one girl I dated. She would get upset on a periodic basis. It took me 112 days to to figure out what she meant when she said, "If you don't know, I'm not going to tell you."

Kudos to you for being able to get upset in a constructive fashion. It's good for your mental health. Not to mention those around you.


absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:10 am:
Thanks James

rm_sweetone244 57F
377 posts
8/13/2006 7:58 am

damn it all - this shouldn't be so hard.

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:11 am:
No sweetone, it should be easy, we make things harder than they have to be.... I can't tell you why.

bipolybabe 56F

8/13/2006 8:29 am

I'm feeling similarly discouraged about being able to find more than a great fuck...here or anywhere. I've been on match also and have had very little response there. I've certainly had more fun and more interesting experiences through my contacts on this site. And, I've met a lot more smart people who are openly interested in sex, which is why I stay.

Hugs to you,



Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:12 am:
I do like the openess of this place, especially on the blogs, which is why I stay.

rm_aboutme66 52F
6047 posts
8/13/2006 8:52 am

When it rains , it pours Mac.
I have to say I started out on Match but when I came to this site I noticed so many of the same faces on both sites. They have altered their profiles there to the site but it is the same face pictures. So my question is ... are they there looking for dates? Or are they just playing and saying whatever it takes to get laid? Or are they looking for more than just a quick fuck? I like to think that there are some great guys on here looking for a great lady , that would be you. So good luck Mac.

Someday is today.

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:13 am:
Thanks about. Yeah, I've seen dozens here that were there too.

tracy_de_lacy 106F
9268 posts
8/13/2006 12:12 pm

You are right to be so open and honest about what you want, and don't want. I met my boyfriend here and have been seeing him for almost a year.

It can happen, hang on in there.

Bye everyone, it was a blast

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:15 am:
I'm hanging Tracy, thanks for your words of encouragment

chas4037 68M
4119 posts
8/13/2006 2:48 pm

Hi Mac

People want many different things from ANY on-line site. Match . AND AdultFriendFinder all want your money. We pay the $$, if we pay, because we find interesting people.

Now, talking about me, maybe a typical guy, maybe not:
I first of all want to have someone who is interesting to talk with. We need not agree on everything, but there must be enough congruence to allow comfortable discussion on the areas where we may not agree.

All things being equal, I'd rather have that interesting person also be sexually alive. There are more than a few out there who either gave up long ago, or never were alive in the first place. AdultFriendFinder indicates that a person is at least capable of some interest.

Geographic reality means that you, in East Nowhere, Alabama and me, in central NY & everywhere else, are only likely to meet as a surprise event. But that doens't keep us from talking does it?

Hang in there, as one of the prior commenters said, there are good people out there somewhere

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:16 am:
No, it doesn't keep us from talking but to what end?

ChrisDL 48M

8/13/2006 3:22 pm

I think we all feel like this sometimes, but I'd ask you just to remember one thing.

You say that "Sometimes this place upsets me, other times I feel it has made my life better."

How many lives have you made better through your blog posts or your responses?

I am of those lives - and you can't make peoples lives better on Match...

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:18 am:
Chris, you made my day when I read your reply. Thank you so much for saying that. I'm glad I helped, whatever it is that I did


8/13/2006 6:09 pm

The many mood swings of the walk. Hugs and you will make it...just keep going! hugs {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:18 am:
Mac trudges onward!

complexlysimple 35M

8/13/2006 7:03 pm

welcome to my reality Mac.... and the truth is I know exactly what you're talking about.

But as for walking into a bar and things being that simple ..perhaps, though I wouldn't expect to find much in the way of quality, which kind of negates the whole point in my mind ..then again it migh be harder than you think -a lot people seem to be turned off or driven away by being too forward or moving to fast (that includes guys as well as women) ...

Just my take on it though

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:19 am:
Yeah, I think if a guy walked into a bar and said that to a group of women they would laugh at him. I'm not sure what would happen, I've been told by men what would happen if I did that, they'd know more then I would, being men themselves.

champagnechaser 42F
1639 posts
8/14/2006 1:43 pm

It can happen and it will happen. Stay positive

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:20 am:
I'm trying to stay positive, it's not working well btu I am trying.

docdirk 48M

8/15/2006 6:04 pm

I could walk into a bar, go up to a group of guys and say, "Excuse me gentlemen for interrupting your conversation, but would any of you lovely men like to fuck my brains out tonight?"

There's a certain bar here in CT that you need to walk into this weekend and repeat that!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

absolutelynormal replies on 8/20/2006 6:21 am:
Hmmm, you just wanna watch me say it to a group of guys?

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