ableone20052 52F
9 posts
1/5/2006 6:04 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


It is really really amazing how different things are here since I removed my photo.
When I had the photo on I would get an average of 7 to 10 mails a day, since removing it I am lucky to get 4 a day.
It really tells me that allot of people base things on the appearance of someone. Here I go again on a tear about shallow people!
I just cannot understand the mentality of basing anything on looks. Naturaly, if someone is dressed in rags and is dirty would surely be put off, however; to want to talk to someone simply because you like the way they look is very limiting as far as I am concerned.
If more people would just talk to other people regardles of whether or not they are attractive, there would be allot more happy people in this world, and everyone would have a great many more friends.
As I have said before, I am most possitive that many many people have missed out on wonderful relationships because they did not introduce themselves to someone because they thought they were unattractive.
Some of the most beautiful people I have ever known were plain or homely, and some of the most hateful miserable people were really good looking.
I am so very thankful that I do not care what someone looks like, I talk to everyone and have met some very fascinating people, and made many friends.
I really do feel sorry for those folks who cannot get past what someone looks like on the outside. I think I have said before that I am blessed to be fairly good looking, but the outside is not what I concentrate on, it is my knowledge, and learning from my life's experiences that I am always working on.
I always strive to be the best person I can be, and to treat people as I want to be treated. I am still enjoying this site though, and I must say that since removing the pic, the mails I do get have much more substance, are not just sex come on's, so I think I will keep my pic. off.

MovingOn001 62M
934 posts
1/14/2006 9:54 am

I have to admit that I first looked at your profile because of the look in your very expressive eyes, but I only wrote to you because as I read your profile, I saw a kindred spirit who is looking for the same things I am. I'm looking forward to continuing to get to know you as I feel we have a LOT to offer each other.

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