what would you do?  

aascrompn 43M
6957 posts
4/3/2006 2:18 pm

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what would you do?

I heard this on the radio this morning and wanted to know what you would do.

this lady and her husband found out that his mother is having an affair. one of her coworkers has a picture of the mother with the coworker's father holding hands. Would you tell the father or confront the mother? would you tell the coworker?

jadedbabe78 107F

4/3/2006 2:41 pm

Confront the mother and encourage her to fess up. It's really not anyone's place except the involved parties to tell the father, imo.

I'm on the fence about the co-worker. Again, you know...but is it really your place to let them know.....it's a battle of conscience.


aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:09 am:
I say it's not their business either, but if it ever came out down the road and the father realized that the kids knew, I'm assuming he'd feel worse for them never telling him.

bardicman 51M

4/3/2006 2:46 pm

I would ask her if I could have some.

Assuming she is not my mother.

I am not dead yet

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:09 am:
You are just wrong... heh.

mycin62 55F

4/3/2006 3:33 pm

Confront the mother. Forget about the co-worker. Or maybe nothing, it's really none of anybody's business.

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:11 am:
Thanks for your opinion! I disagree in only that if the father ever found out that the kids knew about it.

rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
4/3/2006 3:48 pm

Too many unknown variables to know for sure what any of us would do. If it was my, with my particular parents, I'd probably quietly tell my mom about it. She and my dad were both decent people so although it would certainly shock me and make me feel weird as hell, I'd hopefully also tap into the fact that it was between them, and not me.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:12 am:
I see your side of it. It's really not the kids' relationship.

southrnpeach333 51F

4/3/2006 4:08 pm

It is between the married people. How do they know that he isn't aware of it?

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:12 am:
Maybe he is...

HBowt2 60F

4/3/2006 4:59 pm

i'd mind my own business and presume they all know what they are doing and are prepared to take responsibiltiy for any fallout...

EroticaXTC 51F

4/3/2006 5:10 pm

The children should each let their respective parent know that they know, and that others may know as well... and let the lovers handle it from there.

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:21 am:
I think this is the best comment yet... Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment!

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/3/2006 5:33 pm

I would just keep my mouth shut!

Purry {=}


aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:23 am:
I think that's the actual route I would take.

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
4/3/2006 10:54 pm

after much contemplation, some deep thought, a little consultation, a letter(via e-mail) to my member of parliament, a silent prayer, a traditional Jewish blessing for wisdom, a short circle dance with my local Native Spiritualist, flipping a coin, playing rock-paper-scissors with my neighbor( best two out of three), getting my annual physical, visiting my dentist and just sitting quietly with my dog...the answer has become excrutiatingly obvious and I will be happy to share it with....OOOOHHHH something shiny...GOTTA GO!


aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:29 am:
LMAO!!! shiny thing... heh.

tillerbabe 57F

4/4/2006 2:34 am

I would talk to "Mom" and try to help her find her integrity..but other than that..none of my business.

aascrompn replies on 4/4/2006 5:30 am:
I still don't think she would stop... I agree w/ letting it go.

rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
4/4/2006 7:19 am

I'd keep quiet, and mind my own business. They are adults, and as adults, they have a right to do what makes them happy. They should, however, be prepared for if and when it ever comes out...

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
4/4/2006 10:00 am

I understand that....
there is a law of INTERFERENCE on planet earth.
it is one of the universal laws.
i would honor that law and mind my own business.

i would also send love to them and be available if
mom wanted to share with me. it is that simple.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

EyeCandy33333 45F
761 posts
4/5/2006 9:22 am

I would let them take care of it all themselves-it's hard enuff taking care of my own life-don't want any of them hurt but-obviously someone needs something somewhere!

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