aascrompn 43M
6957 posts
6/12/2006 7:54 am

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I have broken a record for myself... It's been over two weeks of not actually looking for a partner or date!

I know it's when you are not looking, that you find somebody, or they find you. However, I've always looked. I've always said that I wasn't, but I really was. I would start off in normal conversations with girls, but then about 10 mins later, I would ask her for her number.

Over the weekend, I had numerous opportunities to approach women, but didn't even see any. I really am not looking. I'm not sure why, but I'm really liking where I am right now. I think I'm just living and having a great time in RL. Nothing has changed dramatically for me, so I know it's not any outside influences contributing to this change. I think after my Divergent One and I didn't pursue anything further, I just took it as a time to recollect my thoughts and myself.

I'm not sure how long this can continue for me, but I'm really happy that I'm not perssuring myself to jump into just anything.

I thought this might just be fun to share. What are your thoughts?

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
6/12/2006 7:58 am

Actually, I have had some things happen this week that are pretty major. My ex-fiance has been taken to a women's battered shelter, as well as a rehab. Even through this stress, I've not once thought about looking at her the way I once did. I communicated with her as only that of a friend. She is not the reason why I've not been looking, either.

Anyway, I'm just proud of myself for not rushing things anymore.

SweetDarlinAngel 40F
2996 posts
6/12/2006 8:59 am

I can say this ... CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
I am very proud of you!
Hopefully you can keep this path up long enough t orealize that you don't need anyone then your confidence will be so high and large that girl will be falling at their feet for you.
Way to go sweetie.


aascrompn replies on 6/13/2006 7:59 am:
Thank you! I'm actually very proud of myself for once... No, I don't believe that I NEED anyone, but having one would be great! My hand can't take much more of this... lol

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/12/2006 1:58 pm

I hate to say it, but you'll be best prepared to find what you want when you're not looking...cliche though it is, it's true.

WB! look great...

aascrompn replies on 6/13/2006 8:00 am:
Thanks! I actually just took two weeks off for my b-day week (or two) celebration. My body soooo badly wants to get back to the gym. I'm sure one will pop up sooner or later. If not, I'll just save my money and buy one.

jadedbabe78 107F

6/12/2006 5:47 pm

You're taking time for you and THAT is a wonderful thing.

aascrompn replies on 6/13/2006 8:01 am:
I agree... It's never been this easy before, however. I'm still waiting for the mack truck to kill me on the way home.

alphuctup 41M

6/13/2006 3:05 am

Hmmm I'm formulating a cunning plan here...we need to get all the other guys on this site to adopt your "not looking" approach. Then I can have ALL the girls to myself MUWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

aascrompn replies on 6/13/2006 8:02 am:
You are evil! Great idea, however, could it be that I'm just saying this to ACT like I'm not looking so that I'm more attractive??

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