Kicked in the teeth  

aascrompn 43M
6957 posts
1/20/2006 7:57 am

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Kicked in the teeth

My best female friend has really been pissy all week towards me. On Sunday, I was supposed to meet up w/ she and her boyfriend for dinner, but I got held up at my bar (where she bartends) b/c I was playing pool and hanging out w/ some of the managers. I called her to let her know (a little late, I'll admit) that I wasn't going to make it on time and to just go ahead and order. She got mad at me on the phone and basically just hung up on me. I didn't see it as that big of a deal until a mutual friend explained to me that they weren't going to go out that night and were just doing it b/c I wanted to. I felt like crap and eventually apologized for not taking that into consideration. Everything was great up until last night.

Last night I met up w/ a group (at the same bar) to play in a tournament. Since we were in the pool table area and she had a full bar, I dicided to just use a waitress (who my best friend despises) b/c it's easier for me in that I don't have to walk across the whole room and wait in line to get a drink. When I went to leave, I walked up to give her a hug and say goodbye and she just blew me off. I asked what her deal was and her response was, "go get a hug from your waitress." and she walked off. I laughed at first, b/c I thought she was kidding, but she really wasn't. I left her a voicemail venting my frustrations about needing her the most right now in my life b/c of my recent anxiety BS, and that I can't believe she would be so mean to me. I asked that she call me today but I know she won't. This attitude of hers is very unlike her. She is, however, stubborn enough to not call me out of spite.

I feel like I've been kicked right in the teeth...

caressmewell 54F

1/20/2006 8:22 am

Is she having problems with her boyfriend? If so the BS maybe running down hill? Send her some flowers or take her to her you care and apologize for ANYthing you may have done (or not).

saddletrampsk 55F

1/20/2006 9:31 am

Send her a card or email to let her know you care and want your friendship to work out..friends are worth it..

rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
1/20/2006 10:27 am

I'm thinking that she - oh hell - I just glanced up and realized I was about to write what Noonerboy wrote. The first point.


Wahine addendum: Can't speculate on the nature of it, but her behavior is DEFINITELY being driven by the degree to which you are important to her.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

PailsDiverHonks 56F

1/20/2006 11:16 am

I thought what Carress said...Also, she could be PMSing..sure go ahead and laugh. My daughter just about bites my head off when she is PMSing, for no reason. Hello, I know I just used a little of your air but no reason to snap at me.

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

1/20/2006 4:49 pm

kisses your teeth better xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

NaughtyNurseMn 50F
74 posts
1/21/2006 9:14 am

All good points already noted here. PMSing was my first inclination. I know you told me she has a boyfriend, perhaps it is true that she is feeling a little "wierd" about you right now... you are kinda cute ya' know!

Just take your time. It always works out in the end.
Call if you want to talk.

The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know...


aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
1/23/2006 8:01 am

Update - She said that she was joking around w/ me... I sent her flowers anyway. Also, she said I'm quack!

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
1/23/2006 12:32 pm

DD - Thanks! It's b/c of all the great advise above!!

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