I Often Wonder  

aascrompn 43M
6957 posts
7/18/2006 6:14 am

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I Often Wonder

What is amazing to me is the abosolute disrespect some people have towards others.

I'm not the jealous type, usually, but what really pisses me off is when others cut corners to make themselves known. I think it's preety evident that I'm really into my Boomerang Bitch... I think any bloggers that know me at all is aware of this forming relationship. I'm pretty sure that her readers know she's into somebody, but may not know who that somebody is... I'm good with that. However, what I'm NOT good with is the fact that these people go behind backs to try and communicate.

Another thing that confuses me is that these people actually think I'm not going to hear about this! What kind of ignorance does one have to have to think that we don't tell each other everything? What kind of man does it take to hide??

Let me make this crystal fucking clear... I hear and know all! I read your stupid emails. You will not get anything past me, because we are honest with each other and we communicate.

Back off! You may not like me. You may not like the fact that I am the one that's building a relationship with her and you are not. She will not be won over by more words typed. So, the emails you send are basically a waste of time. Respect me!! That, according to morals and codes and all of the other unwritten bullshit, is a rule you cannot overlook! Again, liking/disliking is not even an issue, but respect is. I demand respect and will hold you to it!

~ AAS (laughing at children)


SweetDarlinAngel 41F
2996 posts
7/18/2006 9:18 am

Aas~
Good for you sweetie. Way to assert yourself.
~SDA

~Angel


aascrompn replies on 7/18/2006 8:07 pm:
SDA,

Thanks, sweety!! Some people just need to hear things the hard way, ya know?

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
7/18/2006 12:17 pm

AAS, getting a little bent over words, aren't we?

This person of interest, this lady, has other friends. I figure. So, you sound like you want her to stop all contact with others in her life. Is that a reasonable request? Are you dis-respecting her?

Good open communication, that is great. But changing her for you? Hmmmm, may be bigger issues. You are forming a realationship in blog-ville. What rules are there for this?

Best wishes with this relationship. As I have said before in my posts, it is the woman who has the control.

Mav (laughing at adults, acting like children)


aascrompn replies on 7/18/2006 1:13 pm:
Mav,

Isn't that cute... I was trying to leave this as impersonal as possible, but since you want to come out and show your ass (not to be confused w/ AAS) I have no problem doing so as well.

This lady of interest probably really doesn't consider you a friend, as the last email of yours seemed a tad desperate. Now, I can understand being desperate - have blogged many a time about it - but I can't have you begging the Boomerang Bitch w/out my permission. Secondly, flirting is part of the territory on this site, which is to be expected. Outright begging not only makes you look like an ass (again, not AAS) but it just wreaks of insecurity... You might want to look into therapy. I should know, as I'm on meds myself and can probably guide you.

Changing her for me - It's funny, but if you actually like somebody, truly like them, you get to know all about them, whether it be through blogs or emails, or the like thereof... If you really knew jack shit about MY Boomerang Bitch, you would know that she likes to be controlled! It's not the type of control you are speaking of, but she actually likes the fact that I'm aggressive. It seems to be you're just pissed about her ignoring the living hell out of you! I would've gotten the point after the 3rd email went out, unanswered, and walked away, but maybe my intelligence is great, I dunno (do not know)... What rules are there for this?? If I have to explain the man code to you, maybe you need to look into becoming one...

It is the woman that has control?? This answers soooo much about your character and/or lack of spine. Do you think for one second a female likes for a guy who rolls over for them?? Women demand respect is a better way of saying what you were, I'm sure, intending. Mutual respect is the key; giving your balls up is not!

Best wishes?? I'm sure that you mean that, and I'm grateful, really. However, I need no wishes. I have game. Find some, and one day you too, can have a sexy broad on your arm...

~ AAS (patting you gently on the top of your cute little head.)

TabithaElectra 39F

7/18/2006 1:15 pm

From what I know (which really is not that much!) there will always be emails between people on this site, sometimes people will want to be more than just friends, but I know that if the people that email me continue to push for something more, they will end up getting nothing. I am tolerant, polite and friendly/flirty with most people here, but there are always boundaries. Knowing where these boundaries lie and respecting them are where true friends come in and the others fall away.

End of.


aascrompn replies on 7/18/2006 8:09 pm:
Remind me not to be pushy!! Sheesh!

crazygurl2xx 58F

7/18/2006 2:09 pm

round one goes to AAS. but wait maverick is moving, coming up for air...standing and AAS hits him again...

jeez that was exciting. i NEVER get to see real blogville drama because i am here in texas where none of us bloggers talk to each other for various reasons much less meet and fuck (except that one time) and fall in love... WOW

kewl!


crazygurl2xx 58F

7/18/2006 2:11 pm

round one goes to AAS. but wait maverick is moving, coming up for air...standing and AAS hits him again...

jeez that was exciting. i NEVER get to see real blogville drama because i am here in texas where none of us bloggers talk to each other for various reasons much less meet and fuck (except that one time) and fall in love... WOW, much less fight.

kewl!


aascrompn replies on 7/18/2006 8:13 pm:
LMFAO - Well I didn't think it was all that bad, but if you insist!

I think it's probably considered over, so I'm not expecting much more drama...

EroticaXTC 51F

7/18/2006 4:34 pm

    Quoting maverick1255:
    AAS, getting a little bent over words, aren't we?

    This person of interest, this lady, has other friends. I figure. So, you sound like you want her to stop all contact with others in her life. Is that a reasonable request? Are you dis-respecting her?

    Good open communication, that is great. But changing her for you? Hmmmm, may be bigger issues. You are forming a realationship in blog-ville. What rules are there for this?

    Best wishes with this relationship. As I have said before in my posts, it is the woman who has the control.

    Mav (laughing at adults, acting like children)
I read this post, and nowhere did I get the impression that aas wanted her to stop all contact with others in her life. Nowhere in this post did I get the idea that he wanted to change her either.
Open communication is great, because that means they trust, care, and respect eachother enough to share those other communications... and that Does Not always happen in an online or real life relationship... those are the things that reinforce relationships. Having had a relationship in "Blogville", I've felt all the tricks and stunts and behind-the-back-stabbing that occurs, same as in real life... except you obviously went too far by drawing even more attention to yourself here. Now we all know who the jerk is. I'm not positive about the identity of the Lady in aas's life, but you show her no respect yourself when you sneak and seek her attention knowing she has chosen another.

sorry Aas, I've been pleased for you, and that kind of crap needs to go back to the pasture where it belongs...here's your blog back!{=}


aascrompn replies on 7/18/2006 8:14 pm:
I was going to email you, but your profile isn't up... Anyway, thank you very much for this comment. It actually means a lot to me considering my retard prior actions! lol - Hugs!!

ArtisticTwist75 42F
2505 posts
7/19/2006 11:27 pm

    Quoting EroticaXTC:
    I read this post, and nowhere did I get the impression that aas wanted her to stop all contact with others in her life. Nowhere in this post did I get the idea that he wanted to change her either.
    Open communication is great, because that means they trust, care, and respect eachother enough to share those other communications... and that Does Not always happen in an online or real life relationship... those are the things that reinforce relationships. Having had a relationship in "Blogville", I've felt all the tricks and stunts and behind-the-back-stabbing that occurs, same as in real life... except you obviously went too far by drawing even more attention to yourself here. Now we all know who the jerk is. I'm not positive about the identity of the Lady in aas's life, but you show her no respect yourself when you sneak and seek her attention knowing she has chosen another.

    sorry Aas, I've been pleased for you, and that kind of crap needs to go back to the pasture where it belongs...here's your blog back!{=}
I second this... I do, I do, I do...

Artistic (XTC in training)


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