Girl 2  

aascrompn 43M
6957 posts
4/11/2006 7:33 am

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Girl 2

Ok, so I emailed her yesterday telling her that I value her friendship, but that I had to admit that I was attracted to her. I also stated that I hope it would not ruin whatever friendship/trust that we had established. I felt that it was a really sincere email. I guess she didn't like it... She did not bother to respond to it.

I'm now kind of torn between what I feel I should do for me and that of actually doing it to these girls. I think this may have blind-sided her and now feels that she can't even talk to me. I, on one hand, don't want to lose friends, but at the same time, I'm learning from this and feel that I owe it to my self.

We'll see if any of my efforts pay off.

Seriously_Real 49M

4/11/2006 8:56 am

There's another reason she might not have responded....she's a woman and they get SO MUCH FUCKING E-MAIL it is ridiculous. You might have been in the shuffle....relax....and remember what I said Friday: You are going to have a 1:50 success ratio, or you should at least PLAN to have such a ratio....don't get discouraged....


aascrompn replies on 4/12/2006 7:19 am:
I know she got it... It's all good! I'm not discourgaed. The more of these I do, the more confidant I am in myself.

jadedbabe78 107F

4/11/2006 9:53 am I always will all balance out.

aascrompn replies on 4/12/2006 7:19 am:
Yes, it will!

JustaSeeker 107F

4/11/2006 8:37 pm

Remember that anxiety is a part of this process. As far as anyone can tell it's unavoidable, at least until you get into a real relationship.

aascrompn replies on 4/12/2006 7:22 am:
Anxiety on top of anxiety can make for a very anxious moment!!

MyRealLoverOne 47M

4/11/2006 10:40 pm

Hey dude...listen to all these people...they are right...she has not even had a chance to read it...I just sent her home a few minutes ago....

aascrompn replies on 4/12/2006 7:23 am:
LMAO - that explains everything... Dude, find your own women. I'm absolutely sick of you taking mine!

curious082385 32F
4925 posts
4/12/2006 3:22 am

Or maybe she values your friendship and knows how close all of this is to your heart and is simply unsure of how to respond in a way that will not cause you any pain.

aascrompn replies on 4/12/2006 7:26 am:
Yes, I believe you might have it. She does seem to be very gentle and caring like that. I believe that through this moment of silence she did a very good job of really telling me where she stands, but I truly love that is respectful and nice about it. It shows me she has great character. I just hope that she will still consider me her friend and hopefully talk to me again one day!

EyeCandy33333 45F
761 posts
4/13/2006 12:36 am

It could be that a storm came thru-knocked her server off-or she had to attend to her Mom or son or lol-doggy.Why don't you refer to your women as G for Gina or S for you know who-but darling no one wants to be number 2, number 3 and so on I think-I would want to be OMG number 1 and what would be wrong with that.But that adorable look -yeah...

aascrompn replies on 4/13/2006 5:08 am:
That is a very good idea... Now who would S be for?? Darling, I told you were Girl number 1!!!!

aascrompn replies on 4/13/2006 5:08 am:
And take those jeans off already!!! You would be a LOT more comfortable, I promise.

EyeCandy33333 45F
761 posts
4/13/2006 7:34 pm

I'm waiting to be 007-lol and my jeans have been off-where r u?

EyeCandy33333 45F
761 posts
4/13/2006 7:36 pm

Take yours of too

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