A Bad Day  

_RoSe_ 48F
816 posts
8/9/2006 9:31 pm

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A Bad Day

Ever had days where it seems nothing goes right. No matter what you try to do, or try to fix it, change it. Life just keeps doing its own thing. Ever looked at all your problems and been so overwhelmed and scared. I feel like everything is falling apart. I can't handle all this by myself. I am a very independant woman, but days like today make me wish I had someone to lean on, someone to say ok Rose this is what we are going to do. I am sorry I don't usually use this forum for a pity party, and will probably delete it tomorrow. But I guess for now need to get it out. I just feel like I can't take anymore, think I reached my limit a long time ago. Yes I know keep your chin up Rose, it will get better. Seems to me that when I lift my chin, something else comes crashing through. I have always heard that we choose how we let things effect us, but when things get real tough, how do you rise above it? How do you not let it effect you negatively? I have never understood that, I know you can keep a positive attitude but how can you just rise above it. If your daughters missing, or you have a family member dying, or losing everything because of financial issues, how do you plant a smile on your face and continue?

Ok done bitching and whining, and I promise I will shake this sour mood, and get back to me real soon.

"A life without passion is not a life; it is merely an existence."

rm_dimples565 69F
24436 posts
8/9/2006 10:31 pm

Better to let your feelings out and not let them get all bottled up inside.

I hope you get to feeling better soon.

A Drama Free Blog with Smiles


SingleWarrior 53M

8/9/2006 10:42 pm

Mmm. Another Scorpio

I know how those feelings go. I suffer them too from time to time.

Always remember, you are not alone.

rm_aboutme66 52F
6047 posts
8/9/2006 10:42 pm

We all need the comfort sometimes.
It doesn't make you any less strong or independent to want it or need it or ask for it. It makes you a smart woman.
So Rose here is what we are going to do. We are going to get some real sleep and not worry any more tonight. It will take care of itself or not in the morning and worrying tonight will not change that. Tonight think about how lucky you are to be a smart, sweet, usually very funny, upbeat, strong, independent, very pretty lady.

Someday is today.

rm_passion7523 52M
2931 posts
8/9/2006 11:15 pm

hey my friend , take my hand and walk with me ,shout or cry let it out.,i do not know the depth of your hurt or your pain, but i care that you hurt and know that i cannot take away the pain, but please know that i care and wish you strength to overcome your woes... i lost my brother for eight years he disappeared out of my families lives totally without a word or a trace...but we did find him alive and well ,i didnt know whether to hug him or punch him for all the heartache he caused to my parents,( i hugged him)..through all the heartache we always had hope , finacially i have been on that brink of bankcrupty and almost walked away but again cluthed to my strength of being thankfull that i was still healthy and alive and thats what mattered , i worked my way through it and i have come out the other side stronger and more intact at least mentally if not finacially , as for losing my father through cancer , that really sucked but im glad we were able to be able to be there for him and be with him and help nursed him before he died...big bear hugs to you rose..passion

hey sometime life sucks
and its ok to cry
or shout and let
all that hurt out

sometimes it so hard
that for a moment
you do really feel
like giving up

but please never give up
hope and your will to survive

and know that
that there are some
who hope for you
or share similar pain

know that somewhere
someday the pain you feel
will be replaced by
understanding and strength

that there is someone
outthere waiting for you
to share your love

and one day your trial and tribulations
will be your strength
and your capacity for love
and understanding even greater than now

peace and harmony passion

Roper4aCowgirl 58M
31 posts
8/10/2006 11:20 am

I'm just a phone call away honey. Remember that. I have said this to you before but, again, I'm here when you need me. You know that.

Hugs Darlin,

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