too many but not enough!  

_Bound4Pleasure 52F
338 posts
7/19/2006 5:12 pm
too many but not enough!


I posted on the TASA thread not too long ago, how many FWB's are too many.
I guess I never got the answer I was looking for, I actually don't think anyone answered honestly, or seriously.

So now I somehow found myself in a predicament.
with two...ugggggh
I hate to even admit that.
One was working out great once a week, although not enough, I really enjoy the times we have spent together.

Then I met someone else, few dates later it just sort of happened....
he knew about the original FWB. the first one, although I never told him, knew we weren't "exclusive".
So this is good.
Sorta...
I guess.
Still feeling guilty......good Gawd and I'm NOT even catholic!

Oddly enough....
TWO........and I'm still not getting enough...

I wish i could sit here and blame my mother for all of this....
LOL she never told me how many was too many men to sleep with in the same week. Go figure!

So why does two seem like too many, but then again not near enough?

rm___poet__ 46M
3583 posts
7/20/2006 8:59 am

Have to find one with an insatiable sex drive...

Funny I think that is what most men are secretly (HA) looking for...

Oh yeah...HI!

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LovableAscending 60F

7/20/2006 9:21 am

Maybe it isn't just about sex. As humans, I think we need the whole package to be truly content.


LookandWink 64M

7/21/2006 7:03 am

    Quoting LovableAscending:
    Maybe it isn't just about sex. As humans, I think we need the whole package to be truly content.
I agree ... If it's just sex then who cares how many. I've read other blogs (assuming for a laugh that they are truthful) where some women have dozens of FWBs that they call up, or get a call from them, for a quick fuck. They just meet somewhere; get naked; have hot sex; talk for 15 minutes; then leave. If you want more than that, then it becomes a relationship where you want that person in your life for more than just sex. If so, 2 is fine. So, it depends on what you want.


_Bound4Pleasure 52F
204 posts
7/21/2006 7:40 am

Look and wink I dont agree with that.......
we had a thread not that long ago..
the difference between FWB and FB
what you describe above is a FuckBuddy relationship.
Good Gawd- I hope that is not what i have found myself in.


heavensent11236 53F

7/21/2006 6:38 pm

Two is NOT too many, no point in limiting your options, and it isn't like any of them are serious relationships at this point. Have fun but be safe!!!!


Xeryien 53M
1448 posts
7/24/2006 7:45 am


Ahhh the delightful dilemma.....

I'm not sure what I responded to in the FWB posts - so you can compare my answers and see what's changed...

Two FWBs and you are still not satisfied... I don't see a problem! (Other than you not being satisfied, or getting enough!) I assume #1 doesn't know about #2, but #2 knows about #1? Thats' going to be the sticky point to say the least.. Introducing #1 to #2. But once that is taken care of - go look for #3! (I'm not sure if I am kidding here or not!)

Are you having fun? Is anyone getting hurt? What's the problem then?

Xeryien


_Bound4Pleasure 52F
204 posts
7/24/2006 9:55 am

    Quoting Xeryien:

    Ahhh the delightful dilemma.....

    I'm not sure what I responded to in the FWB posts - so you can compare my answers and see what's changed...

    Two FWBs and you are still not satisfied... I don't see a problem! (Other than you not being satisfied, or getting enough!) I assume #1 doesn't know about #2, but #2 knows about #1? Thats' going to be the sticky point to say the least.. Introducing #1 to #2. But once that is taken care of - go look for #3! (I'm not sure if I am kidding here or not!)

    Are you having fun? Is anyone getting hurt? What's the problem then?

    Xeryien
Ooooo
Im pretty straight forward.....
LOL im not hiding anyone!
I'm very happy too!
Satisfied...you bet!!!
what i get when i get it is wonderful,
just not enough sex!

LOL
limited budget for batteries ya know *lol*

so I guess I'm here taking more applications!


pinellascpl4fun2 37M/41F
249 posts
7/30/2006 5:00 pm

With your sex drive and you only have two.....
come on girl, I think you are holding out on us.

Ron


_Bound4Pleasure 52F
204 posts
7/31/2006 9:38 pm

    Quoting pinellascpl4fun2:
    With your sex drive and you only have two.....
    come on girl, I think you are holding out on us.

    Ron
Ha......I wish i was holding out......
sucks to be me eh?

isnt there one guy out there.....
nice guy, pleasant, cute, funny, fun loving, enjoys sports, camping, beach...and lots of sex, and doesnt mind one night a week at a swing club?.....looking for a LTR......


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