Success  

Wyldtyme2nite 47M/47F
153 posts
7/23/2006 3:19 am

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Success


Finally got to meet a couple on here, granted a bit late. But I was unable to leave work until late. After trying to meet at azteca, found out that their nite club is not in operation, Tried Jillians only to find out that its under renovations. So we ended up meeting at PT's and had fun talking and getting to know eachother. I can not lie and say we were ready to jump in the sack with them prior to meeting nor now. But we liked what we saw and definitely look forward to seeing them again. I can not lie and say I am not hesitant about going forward nor can I say that the thought of her being with another man or/and woman does not turn me on or of coarse me being with another woman. Baby steps. We took out first step and as shy as my wife and I were, we hope that was not a turn off to them and that they see us again. My wife found him attractive and as well as her, and she was petite and hot. Definitely liked it when she flashed me. I liked what I saw. Hopefully they were not getting turned on by all the naked women in the room and did not feel like we were just a tease. For one my wife is not a nite person so she had already turned into a pumpkin by the time I got home, so she was tired. And second we had agreed prior that if we did meet them it was just to meet and go from there. Again I hope we did not turned them off. It was a little weird to talk about being with other people but it was nice to know we have the potential to act on our fantasies and not just keep them bottled up inside us. I believe the phrase to thine own self be true, and I believe to many people ignore that side of themselves and always live with the what if only to find out some decades later both felt the same way. I believe communication is healthy for a relationship and if both are honest and opened about their fantasies, wants and desires you might discover you are not the only who feels the same way. There is the joke amoung single men that when a woman asks what is on your mind that it is time to dump her. Becuase the last thing you want them to know is what is in your mind. Well as married men it is even worse. The last thing you want your wife to think is, great he wants another woman and he just does not want to be honest and tell me my body repulses him. Dont get me wrong. A year ago she asked and I took a leap of faith and told her. Her response was just that. You do not find me attractive. And a least with me, it is not that. I love her body, I think she has a smoking body, alot of my friends would love to fuck her, but I would like nothing better than to explore all my fantasies with her. It took awhile but she too came around and admitted that she had simular fantasies but thought my suggestion was just a way to get ther to confess and an excuse for me to divorce her. We are still married and look forward to our first couple couple fun. Whether its the couple we meet late tonite or not, time will tell. We will see who pops our proverbial cherry. And look forward to meeting many more and creating long standing friendships.

showmemore47 71M

7/23/2006 6:13 am

Great first step.-I have suggested that my lady and I look for a friendly couple our age for some play time.-I know that if she was really turned on and hot she would fuck another couple.-But she is not normaly in that frame of mind.-How do I get her past that shyness???--Any suggestions??


Wyldtyme2nite 47M/47F
853 posts
7/24/2006 12:35 am

Patience. Let her come around. From what I have read and seen on show and heard on talk shows, is the women run the lifestyle when it is a couple. You can make 1st contact but ultimately its the female of the relationship that says yea or nay. For us that is the case. I can arrange things but she lets me know if its a go or not and so far she has given me the green light to move forward and find other couples and select single women. Just let her come around and do not pressure her. Have her research the lifestyle. Go to a book store and look at some books. Actually that is what my wife did she went and bought 6 books on the lifestyle. The more you pressure her the more she will recoil from the idea. Patience is a vertue.


foghorn49 61M

7/24/2006 6:11 am

Sounds like you are doing it right. Take your time and make sure that you are both on the same page. Just remember as a couple your relationship is top priority. Never let playtime distract from what you have together. Any couple worth fucking will understand.

I envoy you in that your wife and you can be that open. Good luck


rm_Katchen69 46M/47F
21 posts
7/24/2006 6:20 pm

Hey way to go. I wish hubby would come around. Well someday I guess. I still dont get it, first he wants to then he just never talks about and now I am left wanting with desires and I cant act on them. I have thought about going ahead and meeting someone or couple but I love him and dont want to lose him. Like the other guy I envy good for you guys. Stay in touch winks and links OOOXXX


showmemore47 71M

7/25/2006 10:27 am

great coments.-I love my lady also and dont want to screw up what we have so I have to be carefull what I wish for.-But the thought of playing with someone new drives me crazy.-I think back to my high school days and drive in movies.-My girl would always wear a short skirt and easy open top to make play time more discreet.-Must those days be gone forever?


SirMounts 104M

7/25/2006 9:25 pm

Wyldtyme2nite...
Well written, and welcome to blogging, Wyldtyme2nite/


SirMounts 104M

7/25/2006 9:34 pm

Wyldtyme2nite...
Well written, and welcome to blogging, Wyldtyme2nite.


rm_marnisway 86F
5018 posts
7/26/2006 8:55 am

welcome to the blogs..

smiles

x

Nothing is ever the same... when it comes to pleasures.

with a hint....the erotic senses will manifest into an abounding mess of flesh

the mind needs fulfillment of the body

if it feels good ...it is good

I've done it again...*S*


WivesRailsRubor 55M
105 posts
1/31/2008 10:05 am

Can you tell me the names of the books she found? Which did she find to be most helpful?


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