Let Down  

Wyldtyme2nite 46M/47F
153 posts
7/18/2006 11:19 am

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Let Down

So far nothing much to write about except the let down by people who show interest but then disappear. I am average. I have a gut, my wife is great looking. SO I wonder when I send photos out to the few that I have is it me or my wife who they get turned off by. My money is on me. Granted I do not send a flattering pic of myself. Granted I could dress up and send a great pic of myself at present, instead of one of myself when I weighed 215 instead of 192, but I rather see how superficial some people are. There have been some who have contacted us who were extremely overweight and a lot older, and we took time to let them know via email politely that we were not interested. Others we have noticed want to go straight to the sex. Dont get me wrong I love sex, but I rather meet and get to know the person first before I jump into the sack with them and my wife is in agreement. Her favorite quote is what about a kiss, what about a kiss first. A quote taken from the movie Meaning of life. So my question to all is if all you want is a one nite stand and sex, say so, If you lose interest say so, if you do not want to meet go straight to the sex say so, so we can say thanks but no thanks or thanks so being honest. So far Menages is the only positive we can take from this site. We will keep on trying, we will see if this weekend turns out different. Also thanks to Katchen69 for her comments, and emails and hope to meeting you guys soon.

rm_Katchen69 46M/47F
21 posts
7/18/2006 12:42 pm

YEAH Bad people bad bad people. LOL I know its not a funny matter. Just take the good with the bad. Hopefully we will meet if I can get hubby to set a date. Licks and kisses.

DiscreetDelights 51F

7/19/2006 3:32 am

It baffles me why people join this site if they're not intent on meeting others and fulfilling fantasies and desires. Hell, I even had a previous mate back out at the last minute when I'd arranged a 3some with another very attractive female. Talk about pissing someone off!

I agree, honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. Say what you want.

Bravo to you for sending out your "unflattering" pics. Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke!

rm_ohyeahrhrn 53M/52F

7/21/2006 5:45 am

We totally agree with your statement here and have had it happen so so many times.We are finding that most simply want to join the network of friends to perv and see who can have the largest number count of friends.We say allowing someone into your network doesn't make you a friend,meeting,socializing and finding that the chemistry is there to let go can lead to a very long friendship!We have had those that talked good for a few weeks and if you didn't accept or invite into the network,they suddenly became thin air....Oh well,we're looking for real life face to face meetings and then hopefully some skin to skin fun.....Hang in there and surely the right folks will surface!! ohyeahrhrn

Wyldtyme2nite 46M/47F
853 posts
7/24/2006 12:39 am

First off thanks for the email. Thought the pixs went through and you were one the few. Sorry for grouping you with them. As of today we have now meet one couple that we feel comfortable with and look forward to more. Hope you become one of them. To the future. Cheers.

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