The ongoing search for a friend with benefits  

Willysjeepcj2a 61M
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4/18/2006 11:19 pm

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1/17/2007 9:25 pm

The ongoing search for a friend with benefits


Anticipation is making me wait. First is do we like each other’s personality, looks, hygiene, and all. Then there are all the concerns about what ifs, where to meet, and what to do [a coffee house is nice, go to a spa and sit chatting in a hot tub (Wonder even if they have those here to rent? This is not Calistoga)] Emotions - too intense or not intense enough, will we communicate our desires well enough to be pleasing as a friend and lover? Moreover, what of STDs, (should we both go to the doc and have him make sure all is well with both of us before we get to hot and heavy, or is save sex safe enough?)
It is not as if I am only concerned about being laid, but more of a desire to be able to explore realms that are beyond.

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