WillSatisfyU56 61M
129 posts
12/2/2005 2:31 pm

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10/6/2006 7:15 am


DAMN I hate it when you women cry!!! Seriously!!

Do You other guys feel the same?? I mean what is it about women crying that makes me feel so useless??

I just got a phone call from an old friend. Her AND her husband are friends. We go way back. I was there when they met. We leased a house together. Eventually I was in their wedding! Then they moved back East. He was originally from Boston and there was more work for Him there! A few months ago they looked me up. I'd moved. Told me they were moving back to California next year. He'd had a stroke over a year ago. Early retirement for him...Her daughter lives in the same town I do. Well...

Today she calls and tells me........ They're "splitting up"!!! She's coming out Alone in 2 weeks to stay with her Daughter!

I KNEW this X-mas season was going Too Well!!
There's always something....... I mean, it's still going Great for Me!! But,....Friends breaking up, a friend crying on the phone, a Woman crying.......Gawd!!! .....

Lucky for me I know a Lady that can erase that "Useless" feeling with a word, an email.

themisskrissy 58F
2302 posts
12/2/2005 6:33 pm

just so ya know...simply by being a shoulder for your friend to cry on means you are not useless!! i know of a few men that like to feel needed and knightly...

being there for a friend is very important to me... i do not take my true friendships lightly..

so if you think that is tough... what do you do when a man is crying?
do you guys have some code of conduct?

do not misunderstand me... i am totally cool with a man that can share his emotions!! it is something i encourage!

Virtue Alone Ennobles

Singlechick25 37F

12/2/2005 7:35 pm

I must agree with Krissy. You aren't at all useless by being there for her. You have a good heart, Will

klauskissnhug 58M

12/10/2005 5:31 am

Crying is the goal, Will. If they're not crying, the're still yelling.

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