My New Profile  

Wickedcurve 54M
281 posts
6/26/2006 6:18 pm

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7/9/2007 9:38 am

My New Profile

I am thinking about putting these new words in my current profile. I just got done with it a few minutes ago. I've had the same words on there for quite some time now. Thought I'd shake it up a little. I would like to know what you think about it. You may want to go see what my current one says now so you'll have something to compare it to. Any comments will be appreciated as well. The potential new wording is as follows:

Hello, thanks for taking the time to view my profile. I want to advise each and every lady that views my profile to please read it in it’s entirety. Once you’ve read it you will be fully aware and informed about what my intent is and what I am looking for and what I am not. It’s called ‘Full Disclosure Before The Fact’. No one wants to find out after. They want to find out now. Then once they’re informed they can make a decision whether they would like to proceed or not. So are you ready to be informed?

From the earliest I can remember I’ve always wanted to have a relationship with a female. Aside from the feelings of love, which by the way are wonderful, I wanted to have sex. Can you imagine that? Who would’ve thought such a thing? Yes I will admit I love the warmth and sensuality of having sex. It’s in my opinion the most pleasurable activity a human being can experience. If you can think of something that tops having sex as the most pleasurable activity let me know.

When I was younger I always thought that having sex with a woman meant you had to be in love. So I would desperately search for that woman. Of course it goes without saying that at least for me falling in love didn’t happen everyday, every week, or even every year and as a consequence sex just didn’t happen. Then from out of nowhere it would happen! I would meet my true love, my soul mate. I would be beside myself and finally I could have sex! Oh I was so happy! Then something always seemed to happen. The relationship would end and so would the sex. Well here I was again back at square one, no sex.

This state of mind and body continued until the beginning of 1999 when a relationship I had been in for three and a half years came to a screeching halt on the other persons part. I had given this relationship my all and it came down to this. Not only was I heartbroken but yes you guessed it, no sex again. After about a year or so of grief I decided to do something different. As the saying goes “If you keep doing the same things you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten”. I began flirting and going out with women irregardless of their age, height, weight, and it didn’t matter if I was in love with them or not because all in all women as a whole are all beautiful and seductive. Women need to be held as well as feel the warmth and compassion of a man. I know that I wanted to be held. I wanted to feel the warmth and compassion of a female. It didn’t matter if all we did was hold hands, cuddle, kiss, or best of all have sex! It’s all good!

Now with all this being read by you the reader you may be thinking to yourself that I must be a player. Well I am here to tell you I am not a player. Players will lie to you in order to get sex. I am the opposite. I will tell you the truth about what I want. I am not a taker I am a giver and if you choose to meet me your time will be well spent. When you’re with me no one else will have my attention other than you. You may also think to yourself that I sound like a person that will never settle down with anyone. Well all I have to say is that if I do come across someone that stops me in my tracks and we fall in love so be it! I still am on the lookout for my true love and soul mate. When I do find them there will be no one else but them period. I think I said it best one time in these words,...”If given the choice of either having 'sex' with a different woman everyday for the rest of my life, OR, 'making love' to the same woman everyday for the rest of my life,....I'd choose the second one,...but until that happens I'll go with the first one”. I stand by my words, I say what I mean and mean what I say.

All in all if you have read to this point it tells me that I have at the very least held your attention this long and you're curious. I have been totally 100% upfront in this profile. If you understand and want to meet great! If you do understand and don’t want to meet that’s great too! However remember that all you touch and all you see is all your life will ever be.
I Like It
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I Don't Like It

countryheart_71 46F
8081 posts
6/26/2006 10:09 pm

I like it. Very honest and that's hard to come by.


Wickedcurve replies on 6/27/2006 7:49 pm:
In todays world I agree wholeheartedly with you!

bikerbabe57701 50F

6/27/2006 9:06 am

You know women hear and read what they want to a lot of times. So best of luck with it! I think it's honest and up front. I wish more people had the courage to say what they mean and mean what they say. I myself get tired of men telling me what they think I need to hear. I guess I see it this way....don't tell me you want me or love me because you think I need to hear it....I have family who want me and love me who tell me that. Be with me either short term or long term because you want to be there....or if your killing time..tell me.

Wickedcurve replies on 6/28/2006 4:40 pm:

bikerbabe57701 50F

6/27/2006 9:21 am

P.S. I linked your entry into my blog. I think you should go take a look at it. I have earned a new respect for you as a person and a man. Thanks for renewing my faith that there are actually men in the world who speak their mind with real issues and not just word vomit.

Wickedcurve replies on 6/28/2006 4:31 pm:
Bikerbabe,...I want to thank you so much for the comment you've made as well as linked my post to your blog. You're a wonderful lady!

kitty_focker 61F

6/27/2006 10:22 am

Meowwwwwwww honesty is a good thing...Good luck in your search my friend...


Wickedcurve replies on 6/28/2006 4:33 pm:
Honesty to me is the only way. Honesty is something that isn't easy and has to be worked on continuously.


rm_iwannatellu 46F
933 posts
6/27/2006 12:47 pm


I am very impressed by your honesty.

By being up front, I think you have taken the wind out of a lot of sails, and in spite of myself, I find that I am attracted to the thought of "you" because of how you describe yourself - honesty like that is a rare thing. Your words are totally disarming.

After all - aren't we all really just the same?


PS - great teeth

Wickedcurve replies on 6/28/2006 4:38 pm:
iwannatellu,...thank you for your compliments. I can only hope that my profile has the same effect on others as it did you. So,'re from South Africa? Never been there. Would like to know more about it. Perhaps we can exchange email addy's. Email me here if you'd like. Oh by the way,...thnx for the compliment regarding my teeth!

pretty_blue_eyes 39F
2091 posts
6/29/2006 7:41 am

I like it alot, at least is shows you aren't playing games. You know what you want and if the right thing comes along, you are up to it.

Wickedcurve replies on 6/29/2006 4:44 pm:
You're observation is correct! So tell me, pretty are your blue eyes?

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