Waking up...  

Wick3dnHouston 40M
3 posts
4/16/2006 5:03 pm

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4/23/2006 7:15 am

Waking up...

Two of my buddies from Austin came down for the weekend. I had a Code Red emergency last week. The woman I had been with the last 7 years turned out to be one big ass mistake. Drinking, Drugs, Cheating.. You name it and she did it. Granted I'm not perfect, but I was completly blindsided. We were always honest with each other about everything but I guess everyone has some secrets. I'm just sad it had to end the way it did.

I've been trying to stay as busy as possible which is difficult being that I own my own business, make my own hours, and have alot of free time. I've been working out alot and taking my dogs to the park as often as I can get them there. As the old saying goes, Endorfins and playing fetch are good for you haha

I'm doing pretty well considering. I went through the whole anger phase, then the I'm gonna die phase, then the hurt phase and now I'm in acceptance. It just wasn't meant to be. Some people no matter how much they care about each other or want things to work just aren't ever going to be comaptible. It's a sad truth in life that unfortunatly has to be learned at some point by everyone. If you don't learn that lesson, you will be living it, which isn't going to be very fun.

Looking on the bright side, I'm a lot more experienced than when it all started. I know for sure what I absolutely do not want in a partner. Heavy drinking and partying in excess. It's going to be interesting learning how to be single again and trying to find people with similar interests, but I'm up for the challenge.

Interestingly enough, I chose this site over the others because the people seemed more open and honest about what they were looking for, which is always good in my book. There's really not many places to look anyhow. You can go to clubs and get a drunk or church and get a zealot. So you are basically getting someone that drinks 5 days a week or goes to church 5 days a week. Take your pick. Well, I'm exagerating a bit but you know what I mean. On this site you will atleast know that someo one is a super freak that drinks alot before you meet them =) Thats always a good.

So tomorrow is Monday, a new, hopefully much better week than last. I'm looking forward to it. There's gotta be some well adjusted mature ladies out there that appeciate honesty and a sense of humor. I just gotta find 'em.



angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/16/2006 7:15 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

I hope you find what you are looking for.


628141 37F

4/21/2006 8:07 am

In the words of angelofmercy5.....Welcome......it's nice to see that you have posted your own blog.......so ummmmm.....have you met any ladies at the park with your dog..ha,ha.....just had to say that since that type of pick up has been on so many movies...the one that comes to mind was the cheesy movie with David Spade...I can't recall the title of the movie right now, but you know what I mean......

I said this to make you laugh, hopefully it worked .......hope to read more about how things turn out for you (they will turn out great....you'll see )


Wick3dnHouston 40M
1 post
4/23/2006 7:14 am

Actually no I haven't. I really don't even take them to the park for that reason. I have a Weimereiner and a pit.. thats 140 lbs of dog couped up in my townhouse for the better part of a day. It also gets me out of the house which helps with everything else.


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