Listening to Others  

WaterSpryte 48F
7 posts
2/11/2006 12:37 pm

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3/16/2006 6:55 pm

Listening to Others

This is my first blog on here, so please be patient with me. I would like to say that there are many good people here on this site, and also there are many fakes as well. I have been played by several of the fakes, much as I hate to admit it, but, have learned from my mistakes.
As those of you that are my friends know, I was involved with BlueIceGargoyle for several months. I thought that he was a true Dom and a gentleman. I now know different. Beware of him, for those that don't know. He will draw you into his spell, and then he will discard you. The damage that he did to me was worse than breaking my heart. He broke my trust.
He started things off very fast, wanted to create a new identity for me, and he did. Then he took it back. Fellow subbies, you know how much something like that hurts. He pushes for total commitment, then is unable to follow through with it.
Also, it was brought to my attention, back in November when I went to visit my sister (sexililwitch) that he had played with her at a picnic that the basement dwellers had organized. This was the first time that my sister had had the oppurtunity to "play" and I must say that he and a few others treated her very shabbily. She gave them the gift of submission, and allowed them to "play" with her, and when they were through with her, they left her kneeling on the floor to go "play" with another.
There is no justification for those actions, so, beware of those that you choose to play with.
Also, I was in the process of getting to know a "Dom" from this site. BABs, and a few others, have written blogs re: him. His name is 1CreativeD. I spoke with BABs re: this attraction, and she advised me that I needed to steer clear of him. I have read what was written about him from my sister subs, and I have to say that I am so very blessed to have her looking out for me.
So, in closing I would like to say *cheeky grins* that when the Mistress speaks, one should listen and obey.

sensualtouches3 47M

2/11/2006 7:26 pm

I agree. Very lovely woman.

I am saddened that you had such a bad experience with that Dom. Although I never got into the lifestyle myself, I KNOW what it means to be a good Dom, or even a good partner. So many don't - it's just a sick twist of their personality, and they abuse those in the lifestyle to satisfy their desires.

I wish you the best, and hope you may one day find a TRUE Dom, one that truly understands how the relationship is a two-way street - not just them giving orders and expecting everything from their sub, and giving nothing in return.

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
2/14/2006 5:12 pm

glad to see that you have joined us in the blog world will be looking foward to reading more from you
with hugs and a kiss

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
2/15/2006 12:31 am

Hello darlin,

Glad to see you're putting your thoughts and experiences out there for all to see.

I agree with Spryte's last comment about BAB...but I want to add one thing:

When the Texas Tornado speaks, you better listen...or you'll get run over!!!!

NG...tippin' his hat to a good friend and a true lady.

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
2/18/2006 10:15 pm

I am pleased that you have moved on to much better things and left the trash behind. Deception always catches up. It represents a lack of respect for ones' self. Both of the guys do not know what they lost and how deep they cut into your soul. It is someting in which I will never forget.

One thing I must say darlin'... I am humbled by your kind words. You and the kids mean the world to me. You know if I could curtsy or bow; I would. Instead, I'll just love you like there's no tomorrow.

For all Time,
Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

ftworthtxmale 44M

5/19/2006 1:56 pm


BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
9/19/2006 8:40 am


You know I am always one to follow up on these things long-term. The knowledge that BIG (BlueIceGargoyle) has obtained has been tremendous. He has grown in many ways. I think you have seen this by his actions. As for the M&G in Cali, I was not there to witness that. It is my understanding that David, 1CreativeD continues to spew his sperm in TX. I did want to note this as some people do change for the better.

Love you darlin'

For all Time,
Lady Hunter {=}

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

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