On the Prowl  

WantedHardFuck 44F
11 posts
2/20/2005 11:38 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

On the Prowl

Here I am, in Seattle at last (when I'm not traveling), looking for a bit of action on the side. Love my girl, but she isn't much into sex, so I have to satisfy my raging sexual appetite somewhere.

I've been a swinger in the past, but that was when I was 130 and hotter than asphalt in Texas in July. Now I'm over 30, 100 lbs more than I used to be, and haven't played with boys or couples for quite a few years.

I'd like to get back out there, find some relief for the fire that keeps me awake nights. But I have to take it slow, see how things develop. If I'm lucky, I'll find a nice swingers group who doesn't mind a BBW tagging in.

I'm certainly willing to spread my legs happily for admission...

KaKaKaKn 56M

2/21/2005 12:56 am

Maybe I'm missing something here, but if your love "loves" you, wouldn't she mind satisfying you with a toy or stapon? She doesn't have to be "into it" to do so . . . what difference would it be to her as if she were massaging you . . . she would just be massaging you inside. Are you saying she gets no "pleasure" satisfying you? She may not care to get it, but what's different about pleasuring you without any emotional enjoyment than washing your dishes for you without any particular level of enjoyment. Or am I missing the point that you want the real thing with more passion and energy than your love is capable? It seems to me that in a relationship you choose to do things for the other person because THEY like it, not because you like doing it! Am I wrong here?

WantedHardFuck 44F

2/21/2005 11:58 am

Ah, there's the rub - she doesn't mind so much trying to give, but she has no passion for it. She doesn't get hot doing it, she doesn't get wet, she doesn't get turned on. Which means I don't. When there is no passion in the giving - there is no passion in the receiving. So the answer to your question is yes - she will do what I ask, and be happy to do so, but I get nothing out of it because she is getting nothing out of it. If my lover isn't getting hot and bothered by what they are doing to me, then I'm not going to get turned on by what they are doing. So, in the end, I would rather have sex with passion - but not love, than sex with love, but no passion. Of course, both would be better - but sometimes you cannot get everything you desire from one person.

atlstudmuffin 47M

2/21/2005 1:10 pm

She sounds just like the husband of a friend. He loves his wife very much but he just doesn't like sex. Any part of it. But not just doesn't like it. It goes deeper than that. Maybe he has underlying issues, I don't know. But, there is no doubt that he loves her totaly. He's just a very asexual person. Just so you, and your partner, don't feel alone, research has shown that (and I can't recall the exact figure) like 7-9% of the population has no interest in sex. That's not a big percentage but it still comes out to a couple of million people in the US. I hope this experiment works out for two. Wish I was closer . Best wishes and good luck.

hdpepro 43M

2/21/2005 7:57 pm

I can totally relate to your situation… When my wife was alive we had this same talk many times. I have one hell of a sex drive and due to her illness she had none. I was a vary committed husband and could not or would not find sex in other places. This brings me to my point, She was willing to try the usual stuff to help me out in my situation, but with out my partner getting off on what they are doing to me then it is just a big waste of time…. I am now just coming out of a shell of grief and looking for the same thing, Sex, Sex, and more Sex.

Good luck and let me know if you are ever in the Portland/Vancouver area…

rm_dogdad881 54M

5/20/2005 7:53 am

An honest,outgoing woman,too honest to make it in politics,but I'm sure you'll make it everywhere else in life.

MyDreamingEyes 45M/44F
51 posts
6/2/2005 11:48 pm

Sounds like a pretty unfufilling situation... I sincerely hope that you find what you're looking for.

XylemIsaacHoler 49M
8 posts
7/10/2005 10:18 am

Love to have u from head to toes.

rm_hot69inbed 43M

7/13/2005 12:20 am

wanted' id like to get you some relief from that fire.

MucroSetalCross 56M

7/13/2005 12:01 pm

You have a beautiful hot sexy body - no problem here - action on the side would be great.

rm_ubercutecpl 40M/37F

8/31/2005 8:57 pm

wow..is this a thread for one liners? j/k anyway, regardless of any extra years or pounds we think you are extremely sexy... expecially if you remember it yourself..being sexy isn't about how you look, it's about how you feel...feel sexy and we're sure you will have no problems with your 'fire'..we know we wouldn't say no to your payment type for admission..=o)

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