You Say You Will But Then You Don't  

VanillaKisses243 44F
170 posts
5/6/2006 6:55 am

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5/21/2006 8:30 pm

You Say You Will But Then You Don't

You know the one thing that aggrevates me more than anything in this world...LIARS. I can not stand for someone to lie to me. I don't care if it is about something as little as, "I will call you later." If you say you are going to do something...DO IT.

Last night I had planned on taking my son to this big carnival that is in town. It ends Sunday and I know that I will be busy all day tomorrow b/c I will be teaching. I had planned on taking him Friday to the carnival and then tonight to the parade. I knew I was going to be working today until noon and that I was going to be pushing it trying to take him out here today.

However, I received an IM from someone I have been trying to meet for a couple of weeks that said he was planning on being in town (he stays about 30 minutes away) and would like to get together for a drink. About the same time I get my IM, my son gets a call from his best friend saying he wants to spend the night and that he would be dropped off between 8:30 and 9:00. So...I agreed to meet this guy and I changed my plans to take my son to the carnival to today.

Something in the back of my mind kept telling me that I should have stuck to the original plan and that I should have just gone and picked up my son's friend...but I trusted what everyone said and I sat here waiting. Well...ole dude never did call like he said he would and at 10:00 my son't friend still had not been dropped off b/c his mother was out running around. I ended up sitting home waiting like a dumbass and my son is pacing around like a mad dog b/c he just knows that his friend is going to show up any minute and need to be let in the gate. Finally around 10:30 I told my son to call his friend and tell him to just stay home b/c I was going to bed.

Within 30 minutes of this happening, I noticed that the guy I was supposed to meet was no longer "idle" on the computer. I sent a message asking what happened since I had changed my plans and everything. You know...the bastard didn't even have the decency to respond or offer up an apology or give a simple explaination.

I can not stand to be lied to and it seems like most men on here wouldn't be able to find the truth with both hands even if it was sucking their dick. What is the deal? I realize this is a "sex" site but did I miss the memo or email that said we were all supposed to lie on here. I am one of the most truthful, upfront, what you see is what you get kind of people. Is it too much to expect the same from others?

marcusgerald 44M

5/7/2006 6:47 am

I wouldn't have done that. If I was in your shoes I would have told him that I'm doing the family thing today and we would have to setup something else later. I never put someone above my child in a situation like that. Even if that woman's pussy is gold. That's my take on that.

Nice picture Jennilla!

VanillaKisses243 44F

5/7/2006 7:11 am

Just to let everyone know it worked out better that I stayed home took my son to the carnival on Saturday...there wasn't near as many people and he was able to tire out in 3.5 hours instead of barely getting to ride anything. I guess things happen for a reason and we don't always know what they are at the time. I am still pissed that I was lied to though...and the dumbass had the nerve to call me on Saturday after standing me up on Friday. Some men have balls the size of Texas and not in a good way!

marcusgerald 44M

5/7/2006 10:38 am

3.5 hours! My daughter it would take 3.5 days LOL! I'm planning on taking her to that Disney place in Florida. Somebody is gonna get it. I just know I'm gonna get dragged all over that place. I would be scared to get you upset. I'm happy I'm far away. Really I hope you can come across someone more compatible.

blackmanncc 42M

5/7/2006 11:59 pm

well yeah that is beat up he could have called u and let u know what the deal was that was just rude.........but most men and women on this site and any other site dont tell the whole truth about who they are and what they really want anyway, so its a crap shoot u take chance everytime u meet someone like this. however the key when u do find someone that can be honest and have something intelligent to talk about that u keep them around for a little while cause those type of people are rare and hard to find......and just remember if u ever get stood up again give me call and we'll kick it cause the same shit happend to me on fri night and i was pissed but its all good

rm_69funintx 49M

5/8/2006 11:36 am

Yeah, sounds typical and I wouldn't be surprised if it happened again (the lie part). No great words of wisdom other than "if you go fishing with stink-bait you are going to catch catfish" It is hard to figure out why a person just can't be honest, can't say I have ever been stood up because I don't play the lets meet game unless I know the person "very well". Too many strange folks in this world.

rm_bigbuck20066 42M
2 posts
5/21/2006 7:25 pm

Hello VanillaKisses, this is Bigbuck and I think you are a little too serious for your own good. Now granted you have a right to be respected in terms of your time however, there seemed to be no confirmation of time and/or the terms between the two of you. You need to get an understanding with any man you're with lady. I think you are a very luvin and caring lady. Always give that part of yourself to your son first, before any other man. With that thought in mind i'd luv to chat with you when you get a chance, I think we could have many very deep IM or chat conversations. Also, stop being so mean, you're too pretty and sweet for that. Just keep it real and remember people make mistakes and people can be flakes.


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