Racism...here of all places?! Who would think? Here's some questions for ya...  

VanillaKisses243 44F
170 posts
3/11/2006 6:02 am

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Racism...here of all places?! Who would think? Here's some questions for ya...

When I first got on this site, I had no idea what to expect. I have been pleasantly surprised in some cases, let down in others, and feel my wildest thoughts came true in others. For the most part women have been nice, but it is interesting to see that racism still exists and that it exists on this site of all places. I personally am a white woman that loves black men. I have dated other races in my lifetime, but after 18 years of fucking and sucking, dating and loving, I have come to the conclusion that I simply prefer black males. Don't get me wrong, men of other races are fine as hell, attractive on many levels, I am just not attracted to them. Because of this, I have white men and black women (not all of course)hatin' and I am accused of being prejudiced against my own race.

What do you think? Is a preference a prejudice? And, why is it that white men and black women (not all of course) feel threatened by my decision to date black men?

I have my own opinion on this subject as well as others but I want to hear yours.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

3/11/2006 9:01 am

Fuck'em Keep doing your own thing


greek19701970 47M
1 post
3/11/2006 9:40 am

well personally beautiful I think it is an insecurity issue...You are a beautiful lady and if black men are who you are attracted to then do what makes you happy...I personally love women with your curves so it is my loss...lol...Just kidding...Go have fun and forget the rest of these idiots...Take care.

VanillaKisses243 44F

3/12/2006 5:16 am

something happened to my profile temporarily by no fault of my own...however it is up and running again. i look forward to hearing what you have to say.

loadeddice05 45M

3/12/2006 6:43 am

Things are changing!!! I have had realtionships with black women and although there's a double standard involved?? See who ever you want!! I have a half black grandfather so my blood thanks ya!!! BUT! I wish my lineage would have come out more in my package!! LOL! Bye!!

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
3/12/2006 7:15 am

I think it's what turns you on. Conversely, when we white women turn down men of other races on here, they turn around and accuse us of being racist. No, it has nothing to do with that. It has to do with chemical attraction. I've dated men of all races, my type is more based on personality and common interests than the color of ones skin.

Now, I have Sicilian and Spanish blood. I can't stand Sicilian or Hispanic men as far as dating goes. I don't like how they treat women. I don't like controlling men and chances are they are controlling. I was raised Catholic and I turned Pagan. I'm none too fond of Catholic or Pagan men, either. Catholic men want baby machines and Pagan men all try to play mind games to bag women and try to justify sleeping around with how in the days before Christianity, polygamy was an accepted practice. Yeah, right. It's simply justificaiton to not make a commitment, lest someone better come along.

Now, does that make me racist against my own blood and religious backgrounds? Or does it mean I just don't want to deal with the bullshit I know I'd have to deal with, based on personal experience?

We all have a type, be it based on physical attributes or mental attributes. Based on common interests. Based on whatever. You know what you like. In general, the men who get bent out of shape because you don't have an interest in them all see something they want and can't have, so they lash out like children. It happens to all the women on here.

swallowsdontspit 65M
276 posts
3/12/2006 7:29 am

VK243, for numerous opinions on this check out the blog from 3/9/06 of: 007sexy40plus for some insight on this controversial subject. personally i 100% agree with rtl_3.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
3/12/2006 8:57 am

I say it's a preference and skin color shouldn't matter. It pisses me off to see in our society today that MORONS still think like this. Why cant we all just get along and have some sex ?

Purry {=}


marcusgerald 44M

3/12/2006 3:37 pm

I feel like the strangest one that people come across. First off being raised in Louisiana doesn't help when you're black. It doesn't matter what you're mixed with. The skin color of a person is always an issue out there. I play guitar my music of choice heavy metal. So when I play live people look at me like I'm an alien. Being Creole isn't really nothing special is what I thought at first but it's the essence of a person. The inter spirit and soul of that person. I always heard that white women are predators I see it on some levels of business but not on a personal level. To date a white lady back home is like a crime. The ignorance runs like a river out there but it has always been like that. I read profiles that say white men only all the time it doesn't bother me because there is always a better woman like VanillaKisses saving the day. I say gather all the Blackberries you like and keep the good ones.

VanillaKisses243 44F

3/12/2006 5:44 pm

thank you for your comments...anytime you wanna holla at a girl let me know. i look forward to hearing from you.

marcusgerald 44M

3/12/2006 6:34 pm

That sounds like an invitation. I have that IMC thing I haven't tried that yet. Well the next time you're on I'll talk with you. Now I don't type at super speed so give me some time.

littledaddy65 52M

3/14/2006 3:26 pm

i think , no i know it still go on but sweetheart do your thing im marry to a white woman and i just like white women i love my black sisters but im a freak and alot of white i met was also and the sister wasnt i been call a sell out to but i still did what i wanted to bad i cant have some of your lips on me.this for vanillakiss243

rm_jmon4663 53M
3 posts
4/10/2006 12:23 pm

Racism, is an ugly thing, your preference to black men is not unusual, we are excited sometimes by the most bizarre things, i like the contrast in skin color when I have a white lover, i am visually stimulated. but good loving is good loving regardless of your skin color. We all want to experience the unknown to have lovers of different skin color. Let the experimentation begin.

rm_loves2fuck68 43M

5/8/2006 9:19 am

Its always going to be around because there is a need for it in peoples lives. Sad but true. I date everyone and thats my preference but the heat i get from the gaze from white males and black females when im out with a good looking white woman is too much. Its 2006 and some people need to act like it but it is a bridge that many dont want to cross. Do your own thing that makes you happy and always live your life because its yours. Wish i was in texas after i saw your cam VanillaKisses. Hot as hell girlfriend.

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