What are the Danger signs....Do you know?  

VELVETGIRL69 52F
98 posts
4/16/2006 2:36 pm

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7/26/2006 3:06 am

What are the Danger signs....Do you know?

Well...we all know the danger of finding someone who is outwardly slimy and has distorted views on women and is obviously an abusive person.

They are the ones you meet and all you think of is, “I just want to get out of here.”

What about the ones that are good at pretending, lying, and don't look like creeps and come across as charming caring individuals?

These are the ones it takes a few months to figure out. The ones who lie about their age, their names, and tell you they aren’t in a relationship when they really are.

The ones who tell you untruths about their lives, and try to convince you they are good and honest decent people, and that the world has wronged them and everyone else is to blame for their misery.

These are the ones who are lying to their girlfriend or spouse, as they plan to meet with you.

The ones who at first shower you with compliments and wine and dine you and tell you that you are beautiful and cannot be without you, and then suddenly over the next few months
hurl degrading, hurtful comments towards you and treat you with contempt leaving you with emotional scars.

These are the men to look out for, as these types are con artists and will find a soft spot in you and exploit it. These men are very convincing and do not look like monsters but are.
It just takes a little longer for their Jekyll and Hyde personality to come out and when it does you will be left wondering how the hell to get out.

It’s not about creepy looking people but creepy people in general who at first do not seem to fit that bill.

One such creep is here in AdultFriendFinder and is conniving his way into your bed.

He is Lexx10inch.

If you like that sort of stuff well…all the more power to you but in the end it’s your well being that’s at stake.

He will without looking back, move on to his next victim.


rm_Exwhorecist 51M

4/16/2006 5:12 pm

Poignant... note to self: do NOT go out with Lexwank (ok, I'm actually not bi nor gay so it's non appplicable lol).

In any event, please note, however, that the same dynamic(s) applies to some women


VELVETGIRL69 52F

4/18/2006 1:34 am

Kofla this is not about the guy, it is about the guys behavior.

No different than warning others about , child molesters and such. I have moved on with my life and have met a lot of nice guys so that is not the issue.

I feel you have misunderstood my intent and that is...to educate and inform and bring awareness to some who have different ideas on what a psychopath looks like.

Thank you for your concern and your comments. I read your blog and find it informative as well, you are doing a great service to all and I thank you for that.


sensually_4ever 43M/F

4/21/2006 4:52 am

Ex... sheesh you aren't bi.. geez..t he things you pick up in chat *sighs*

Velvet... hmmm.

sounds like you have been hurt?

I am glad that it also sounds like you have moved on.. I think it is a great service really to warn other gals.. who may be lonely and not discerning about who is paying attention to them...

Cause of you.. they will know that this one who pays attention is playing a game.

tis a good thing.

WHy not stop from others getting hurt?

Sens


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