The Boy inside the Man  

TurnLock 61M
454 posts
8/25/2006 3:11 pm

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The Boy inside the Man

When it comes to women, I know more about them now then when I was younger. They were attractive, beautiful and desired. Just like economics the more in demand they were the harder it was to get them. With so many men wanting them, women got a crash course in economics. As a youngster when girls where faced with choosing between the Porches, Cadillac’s and Volkwagons. It’s not a surprise that we Volkwagons didn’t get picked.

Now that I’m older, these rules still apply, but the Volkswagon can move up the chain, if he knows what he’s doing. I’m more knowledgeable now and certainly more experienced and yet I still feel like that young boy experiencing women for the first time. Being married for 21 years and providing for a family doesn’t really prepare one for being single again. My biggest surprise is the greater sexual freedom that women have today. Anal sex and oral sex were pretty much no no’s when I was young. I’ve got 21 years of blow jobs to make up.

Unlike the boyhood me, I’m less shy around women, which is a good thing, since talking is a prelude to sex. I still feel the barriers that exist between men and women. We don’t want to express our attraction, we fear giving too much to early. My emotional state is something I usually don’t hide. You can tell right away if I like you or don’t. You’ll never know the degree to which I hate you, but you’ll know not to push any buttons.

Like the boyhood me, I still feel that we play games with each other. I guess that will never end. We both want control, we both want to build desire which is also control. Isn’t true love giving oneself to the other? When we can get past the games, we can truly begin a relationship.

So dating women is oddly enough a new experience for me again. My second time around armed with the knowledge of a man and the naivety of a young man. I’ve got some growing up to do.

druidrocker 63F

8/25/2006 4:01 pm

enjoy your second chance - may only good things(and women)find the path to your door

qyxx 61F
3334 posts
8/25/2006 6:55 pm

It can be a little intimidating but you will get the hang of it.


amoldenough 71F
16436 posts
9/1/2006 11:04 am

Some of us actually like Volkswagons!!! I hate the game playing. I don't know why people feel that they have to play games, especially when they get older. I don't play games. I don't know if this makes me boring or uninteresting, or sexy and desirable. I don't like men who play games. Unfortunately, sometimes it's difficult to weed out the game players. It would be nice if everyone was themselves. "What you see is what you get."

PS, You're not a volkswagen any more!

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

TurnLock replies on 9/2/2006 1:23 am:
Thanks, if everyone thought like you, I'd be having sex right now. Everyone trys to protect their hearts and that's why there is games. That's why true love doesn't involve games. True love also takes time, so to protect/guard their feelings we end up playing games. Of course at our age, life should be more simple. We know what we want and are capable of going out and getting it. That confident we have being older is great.

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