A Strong Woman  

TurnLock 61M
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6/30/2006 5:33 pm

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8/6/2006 8:49 am

A Strong Woman

I like that women can take the time to find the good in things and people. It feels like the mothering and nurturing aspects of being a woman. That’s why a man can make it with a strong woman. When were down you have the ability to put things in perspective and bring us back to earth, refreshed and ready to tackle the problem again. I had a problem at work many years ago when I was working for the Dept of The Army and I had some racist management. I complained about a review that I felt was overtly negative and not reflective of my performance. They unleashed the power of their racist machinery and sought to remind me that they were the bosses. I got wrote up for every little thing, I got wrote up for other people security violations. I got wrote up for showing up to work and for not showing up to work.

My boss called me into his office to present me with my most recently write up and I would be pissed that this was going on every day. I joked that it had been two days without a write up, but I had spoke to soon. I told my future-ex what those ass-holes were doing and how I was pissed. She told me in the simplest terms that they wanted to see me mad, they wanted me to explode and justify terminating me. She suggested I just smile in their faces. So I did, my composure was different, my reaction was different, I laughed the write up off. I responded that all of these acts were retaliatory and in violation of various codes. My boss had the nerve to ask me what codes and I exclaimed that “it was not my job to educate you in the performance of your job” and I left the room.

After an independent investigation that found many discrepancies and where able to determine that my Bosses actions were in violation of the law and I’m sure his personal file was updated. They offered me a resolution and I accepted. That was a difficult time and with out the support of my future-ex it would have been a lot rougher. I don’t have her support any more. We are on different agendas. I have to hold it together on my own. That feedback that connection was so significant that I have to restrain myself when I have a issue or a problem. I could ask her but then I have to open myself up to her advice on things in which I don’t want her input. I am on my own.

So a strong woman is an important factor in any man ability to function. I just hope that they have the sense to notice it and appreciate it. From the mother to the lover and even the friend. That’s why I appreciate the friendships I have here, weak or strong they do fill the void that I am sorely lacking.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

6/30/2006 6:43 pm

Anytime you need a strong woman hit me up I might not be near but on the internet I am not far. Hope things get better for you soon. I miss having a man around too to argue with over the little things like water on the floor in the bathroom and leaving the seat up. But what I miss most is having someone to turn to when times get tough. I have had to endure those alone for sometime now and it sucks to be honest but at least I know I can do it if I have too.


TurnLock replies on 6/30/2006 6:50 pm:
Thanks, that's nice of you. I certainly will do that.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

6/30/2006 7:08 pm

Oh forgot to tell you how to find me. Same handle as aim but on ya hell


MissKittyNip26 107F

6/30/2006 10:26 pm

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