Tryanything1ceXX 45M/40F
133 posts
6/11/2005 11:29 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Ok here is my question to the blog world

what makes good vs GREAT sex?

is it the size ( of the man)
is it emotional?

Is it visual?

is it from certain types of touch?

is it spiritual?

or is it from energy?

I would like to know what other peoples experiences have been along these lines!!!!!!!!!!

I no for myself sex with my husband is awsome it brings me to complete climax,yet sex with a lover brings me to a totally different climax!!!!

I have only Orgasumed with my husband I cum with other people ( men and woman ) but the big O only comes from my sweet daddyo........

Can someone tell me HOW to reach O more often PLEASE

Please comment

Kisses melissa

Puurple_Passions 47M/40F
140 posts
6/11/2005 3:05 pm

With my husband it's definitely spirtual! With others that we swing with, it's many other things. It's visual, it's chemestry, it's how they touch, it's how into me they are. Knowing how to plant a kiss on me that'll knock my socks off is a HUGE plus!! I don't know what to tell you about reaching an "O" more often. For me it helps if I close my eyes and block out everything else but the feeling. Kind of a Kama Sutra almost meditating state of mind.
~Passions~ (The F of the C)

8BigandThick8 41M
1 post
6/12/2005 6:39 pm

I think it's all of those things.
By the way you are something else!
I think the energy is important. As well as some good foreplay.
Even more so is the types of touch. Like slowly running my hands down your chest and stopping just before I get between your legs. Then putitng firm pressure on both of your thighs.
And like having a firm hold on your hips as I pull you towards me.
Then of course is the visual;
Some women love to watch a cock slide inside. Especially if it is a big thick cock stretching them wide.

rm_book19652006 52M

7/6/2005 12:48 pm

I see it to be different for each person, it is a combination of a lot of things. For example how experienced is the other, I think a lover should take his time and move slow and easy and then at times hard and rough. He should give attention to the whole body of his lover. Most of all who he is will determine if he could turn you on. He should be able to create a sense of release so you are able to let your self-go. This is just a few of the things I see to be apart of great sex.

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