Ignorant people  

TryAnythingOften 55M
27 posts
12/23/2005 1:01 pm

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8/18/2007 2:18 pm

Ignorant people

It has happened to me a few times now and I am beginning to wonder if there is a reason. I meet a lady on here, we chat for a while. We swap over to MSN and we chat on, sometimes for ages, sometimes getting very hot and sexy.

We seem to be getting on great and arrange to chat again the next night. A couple of times the lady has talked about meeting very soon.

The next day/night I see her on line and say hi but from that point on I get totally ignored. No response at all.

Is there some type of scam on here that involves getting people on to MSN. Maybe some sort of virus download or something. I don't know.

I could understand if if we weren't clicking but I thought we were and I am not usually that out of tune to how things are going. Also, if they had changed their mind all they would have to say is go away.

Have others had this experience or have any sort of explanation?

justme69053 61M

8/14/2007 6:31 am

It happens to the best of us, sometimes its AF not sending e-mails quick enough and people think your not interested any more. i have been chatting on a day to day basis with a gold member...its just stooped for no reason. Did you get my e-mail regarding the birthday treat for your other half? love to cum along if i fit the bill.

TryAnythingOften 55M
102 posts
1/2/2006 3:44 pm

Thanks Silky x.
Its more that I don't understand why people want to do this than anything else. I don't see what they get out of it.

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

1/1/2006 8:03 pm

sorry your feeling hurt

silky x

Ladyblue85 59F

12/23/2005 1:33 pm

Well, I've been on both sides of that predicament. The one and only time a guy suddenly stopped talking to me, after a little investigating on my part and finding his profiles on other sites, I realized that he was put off by the fact that I have several guy friends from this site..... and to me, i meant friends as in, we chat a lot, grab a bite to eat.... not necessary sex. So I guess he thought either "whore" or he didnt want to share ME. I found thru his other profiles that he had a statement that he "will not pursue anyone who is seeing other men at the same time...." Well if he had made himself clear........

And the few times I have stopped talking to a couple of guys was their comments or behavior was just getting too bizarre or giving me that women's intuition to back off. When I have tried to tell someone that I wasnt ready to meet.... they would get nasty... so sometimes women either dont want to hurt someone's feelings, or yes, maybe even find someone they feel more compatible with.

Just try to keep it "polite" so-to-speak and leave meetings open to her, but for heaven's sake.... unless ur looking for a LTR right out of the gate, dont stop talking with other people at the same time.

Even with all the crap I've been thru with guys on this site, I have met several nice people who are still friends. Just keep plugging away -- too many people, esp. men want results right away.

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