Married but Looking  

TrueTxGtlman 54M
111 posts
6/12/2006 12:41 pm

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6/17/2006 8:56 am

Married but Looking

In the past I have had all types condem me for being married and to be looking for someone. There are married women that condem me for not leaving and just become single before I look for someone. I have had single women tell me to just enjoy what I have at home and stop looking for someone outside the marriage. Even on this site I get a few messages letting me know how they feel about a married man looking for a friendship outside of my marriage. For all you I must say if I really wanted any LIP out of you I would have rattled my zipper.

There is no "How To" guide for life. There is no real cut and dry way to how one must live their life. I try to never judge someone for how they decided to live their life as long as they are not out to hurt someone. I give everyone the benefit of doubt that they know what is best for them and as long as they are not purposely trying to cause harm to another they should be allowed to pursue that.

If you want to judge me that is fine but know this you will most likely never know me well enough to place a true judgement on me and that is why it really doesn't matter to me what you think. I need people around me that accepts me for who and what I am. I am looking for someone that really wants to be friends first and nothing more.

purplefroggie69 48F
30 posts
6/12/2006 3:36 pm

We can never walk in your shoes so we cannot and should not judge. One never knows the whole story accept for the people involved.

Good luck. I hope you find what you are looking for...and sooner rather than later.

TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/16/2006 5:58 pm:
Thanks, it is a rather unique situation. If I am lucky I will find what I am looking for but if not it won't be the end of the world.


alissa2001 48F

6/13/2006 2:53 pm

this place is for all kinds..

luck to you..

TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/16/2006 6:00 pm:
Yes but many have their own opinion about how everyone else should live their life. I hope you get all you want and need also.


twirly_girl 48F

6/13/2006 7:54 pm

Aww, TTG... who pissed in your cheerios?
I get emails from men who are pissed that I have my profile
up but am not looking for someone. lmao

Just let it slide as stupidity and ignorance.

You have good reasons IMO to need a FWB.


TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/16/2006 6:05 pm:
No one urinated in my cheerios. Just wanted to let others know that some on here are not perfect as they are.

You are not looking for me??????

In my opinion I just need a Friend

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

6/13/2006 11:08 pm

Cudos to you. Well stated.

If you would like to have a blogging buddy, someone who will read what you write and leave comments, just drop me a line on my blog.

Lady Bambi

TrueTxGtlman replies on 6/16/2006 6:06 pm:
Thanks Bambi you are my favorite Deer on AdultFriendFinder. I will come and take a look at your BLOG never hurts to have Another Friend Finder here


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