TinyBrownEyedGrl 49F
76 posts
3/9/2006 9:34 am

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Why is that alot of men and woman on here lie on their profiles or are on here only to cheat on their spouse???

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
3/9/2006 10:05 am

good question. I wonder about that too. But don't let it get you down. Just do your thing, and meet the people that most suit your interests.

gemini0157 60M
6842 posts
3/9/2006 3:14 pm

You know.... they lie other than here too. I would supposed this is a good place to hook up with someone wanting to have an affair... They sould still tell the truth at any rate... don't you think?

AmericanBeautyCo 33F
3 posts
3/9/2006 4:23 pm

i totally understand what your saying. I send emails towomen who say they want a threesome with a couple (M/F)and then they respond back that thats not what they are looking for. But their profile says it is..Wouldyou be interested in joining the hubby and I?

rm_detour694U 61M

3/9/2006 6:48 pm

In my opinion it happens because people go into a relationship, become attached, get married...but lack the honesty to tell their spouse that they want to share, be shared or that they have an interest in "playing" with others. Perhaps they feel their partner will not accept it. Maybe they KNOW their partner won't accept it, so they will try to cheat secretly. Sometimes they stay with a partner because they enjoy the material things or social status of a "marriage" and being dishonest is just plain easier (but it's not really). I can see this is a real problem. Hey... I'm single!!! And that's no Bulls**t. You should be dating ME!!!

MONA_14 31F

3/10/2006 10:30 am

you are invited to be our Friends

Mrhandsyone4u 59M
3 posts
4/21/2007 2:02 pm

Look at the times we are living in too many distractions, And what amazes me the most is all the divorces it blows my mind. And complaints of one kind or another about their mates.

Shoot you can say what you will but many people I believe never learned how to have good sex. Because they are mature and think they can skip over the BASICs like 1). Kissing and foreplay and pleasing and nurturing one another. But if you want to know why many people break up complain about all sorts of problems and fight and quarrel. I know from my own experience and listening to the complainers if they "quit kissing" or kiss very little if at all anymore.

Their marriage and relationships and intimacy went down hill as did their ability to please their mate sexually. They are still having sex but they are unable to orgasm like they used to early on because they kissed a lot more at the beginning of their relationship.

But now they just or mostly go for the Home-run or straight to the intercourse. And their hormones which they both need to stay level headed and interested are out of wack and out of balance or depleted. And the lying and cheating is a product of our times everybody is in a hurry and schedules no time for kissing and foreplay that takes too much time.

If you treat your sex life or love making like a gourmet meal or several course meal and trying to please your mate sexually you will continually have a long and happy and fulfilling relationship.

But today we treat our sex and our sex lives like a "fast food meal" no soup or salad or drinks we go straight to the main course. And we fake our orgasms and fake lots of other things so if you are lying about your orgasms you are just as able to lie about everything else in your life.

Sure you are having sex more and longer periods of time but you are not achieving the same results because you as I said skipped the basic's! You can see this if you look in the animal kingdom to maybe you don't think animals like dogs don't do this or kiss but they do. They exchange spit to.

Pictures taken 20 years ago used like this is who you are today only the reality is you are a 100 lbs over weight gray hair and face full of wrinkles. You may think like a young person but your body is talking and saying something different.

Hmm? This is Senior Sizzler isn't it? Then perhaps this is also wisdom verses the errors of youth and in experience and never contemplating anything but your next fuck!

Lionheart3494 60M
38 posts
6/26/2007 1:36 am

I do not lie,I never cheated, but I hope I can steal your heart,always Rick.

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