What is real and what is not on here  

rm_Tigress0069 49F
31 posts
5/3/2005 6:53 am

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What is real and what is not on here

I’ve been reading the blogs on here for a few weeks so thought I would post one.
I wonder how many of these people are real or how true their blogs are. Some really leave you scratching your head. First there are the unreal men who send you email that give you the creeps. Makes one feel like nobody on this site is real. Then there are these blogs. Some people write stuff I can believe, maybe it’s something I can relate to better. Like REAL life. Others it seems like they just read a chapter out of “fantasies are us” Do men loose all of their marbles when they don’t have sex? Is that why they write such unrealistic emails and blogs. Some of the females on here. I wonder if she really looks like the pictures she has posted. You look at some photos of some of the females and you see what looks like a very attractive body. You read the blog and she has really erotic taste then you look at the profile and its says 5 foot with a little extra padding. Those pictures she has posted look more like a 5 foot 8, athletic female. Do people who are not attractive have more erotic taste then people who could easily get picked up at a bar? Some of these blogs makes you feel like the person has some serious mental problems. There was a post about some girl that lives in Canada. I guess she has been around this site for a while. I don’t know what happened but people seems concerned about her. I followed a link to her blog site and started reading it. WOW this person needs to see a therapist. I found myself wondering if she was real. I guess she is a real person because she writes in her blog but I think she writes stuff to get attention. If she was anything like her post why is she on this site? Who knows? Maybe she just likes the attention. I followed the link to some of the men that wrote on her blog. I think they are living in a fantasy world. Do men really care? Are they on here just to get there rocks off or do they plan on meeting someone real? Do men really like all these fantasies some people write? What do they have to gain from it? Some of these people write stuff and get a lot of comments from these tongue waging men. Do they think if they leave a comment like that they will end up meeting the person? I guess some of the females do the same thing in men’s blogs. I think I will keep looking around maybe post in this blog every so often.

rockwriter58 57M
1389 posts
5/3/2005 7:26 am


Yes, there are real people here. Yes, some of us hope to hook up with someone here.
Yes, when men are sex-deprived they go nuts.
Yes, there are fakes here.

But it is only natural to have fantasies. The problem here may be that some folks get addicted to the fantasy they build around pictures, blogs and profiles.

Good luck in your search. You sound sane and real.

ShineRhinoNuder 62M
2 posts
5/3/2005 7:28 am

I am on the road(travelling) and waiting for the plane so like always to pass time I read blogs and just now when I don't have much time I found a blog worthwhile to respond.
I am a member of this site but a member wondering and looking around for some serious people.Because of so much sillyness and vulgarity shown here I keep me on the low side.
But i was touch by your blog ,at least someone who think and feel like me.
remember in a goldmine you nhave to break up ,tons of stones to get a gram of gold,but it's worthwhile to work you in sweat.
I hope we can make contact in the future.For the moment I stay in Belgium

rm_aliveinky 73M
41 posts
5/3/2005 7:30 am

You are Right on the money !!!!That's why I posted a recent picture of myself, running the sound system for my band. We played in Louisville, Kentucky and the drummers wife kinda caught me off guard, but, it was worth it. I don't get many responses from women or possible couples, because some many people think 60 is over the hill.....At least I'm honest and if they only KNEW.
Later, Charlie
You are right though, it's worth it to me just to be honest ....

1river1 69M
2 posts
5/3/2005 8:29 am

i,am new to this site my first week. i agree with you and i havn,t had any contacts but thats ok. the more i read the more i get cold feet. to some of your thoughts yes men and woman very much have all kinds of fanicies. for give my spelling. can,t expect much out of a guy who spent 6 yrs in secoud grade (kidding)alot really weird and not beleivable but it,s there and very true most people say we come to this site because we can,t get picked up or are looks and fat and old bodys a 29 old couple in thier add said old and ugly people arn,t anygood at having sex well some are and some are not i came here to feel a very empty space in my life i,am married and love her very much then why am i here nobody but the people behind closed doors knows i don,t thank i,am a bad person for looking for some one like me to at least have the day dreams about nite things i all ways wounder about it reather if i can go thew it is some else the i agree that most of these people are really hurting to experace something and they don,t evan know what it is so tey say anything to get notices i could tell by your letter that your very intelagent and supper comond since don,t change most of the people out there don,t have both including me to i,ve made my share of miss stakes well what i,am tring to say to you is the same you said i guess.well take care and be very carfull 1river1

1river1 69M
2 posts
5/3/2005 8:43 am

ps 1river1 i wasn,t trying to get you to contact me i just read the others comments and let you know that and thought i should tell you i will responed to these ok. (may the stars shine down on you but not fall on you) ps if they do i don,t want be there ok

need_4more2 46M

5/3/2005 10:38 am

nice observation. hope that you manage to find someone who falls into your category of satisfaction. most of us don't and that's why we look for it here. crazy, sane, certifiable, or otherwise - fun is still fun and out there is someone who is willing to share that even if it is from across the ocean.

rm_tigger46WMA 59M

5/3/2005 2:12 pm

I hear ya. I think that some people rather be a "fake somebody" then a "Real Nobody". The sad thing is everyone has something to offer. People look at the outside, more then the inside. I have met some very physicaly attractive people in my life which after getting to know were realy the most uglest people on the inside. It's often hard to find the one you realy want.

Personaly I've not had much success on this network. Thats not saying the network don't work, it just indicates that I am just not the right catch for those who view me.

I'd rather tell the truth then live a lie because then I know that the person who is attached to me is real and meaningful.

Good luck in your quest. Johnny

jakblack36 49M

5/11/2005 2:27 pm

I feel you are right. People often disguise who they are on he net..and this site multiplies that response. The truth is people feel they can hide in this medium..the sad part is they can't. I can not tell you how many times I have been lied to only to be really disapointed when I meet the person.

P.s I would like to have replied to your ad, however I just moved in with my mom who is partially handicapped.

recharged 49M

5/20/2005 7:32 am

You said it. The number of fake profiles on this site is nuts. I hope many of the blogs are created from fantasy world, or I am concerned for the world we live in and the pople who live in it. That said, I do think there are some real people on this site that are looking to meet others to meet, make friends and if they hit it off explore their sexuality together.

Bigshoulders6721 50M

6/1/2005 7:37 am

I can't stand all the fake people on here! But when you find a real one it is worth it. I have met several close friends on here and am glad for the times we spent together. I would love to talk with you and restore your faith!

Jerosd 48M

7/20/2005 6:11 am

Last time I checked I was real...on the other hand..I do feel likeliving in the twilight zone...prob the weather...

rm_bella_ 48F
4030 posts
8/3/2005 7:58 pm

interesting viewpoint...everyone's opinion has validity even if someone doesn't agree.

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